Swissblueeyes Blog Comments (709)

RE: Where are the ladies.

After I viewd your profile I can see where part of your problem is..It says your in your late 40's but your looking for females from 18 to early 30? Seriously in my opinion too many men go on these sites without being very realistic.. I posted a realistic profile to get decent results..I also dont understand how a man can think any good looking girl who is 18 will be interested in a man older than her dad?
Unless she is very unattractive, has no job and is looking for a man to take care of her, I just dont think its gonna happen.
You have 3 kids and most 18 year olds are gonna also want a man whos either got no kids or only maybe 1 and is closer to her own teenage years.
Also I would recommend you look at yourself and see what level you are on in looks, employment and availability..Then pick a reasonable age bracket, looks level and employment.
You might have better results.
I would never go on a dating site expecting to meet a 25 year old who is also above me in looks and employment because I think it would just be ridiculous for me to think someone like that is going to settle with a woman much older who makes less than they do..Why do people post unrealistic profiles then complain later about it? I'm not bashing you..Just giving some real advise and not patting you on the back giving you false hopes..Good luck to ya..

RE: I loved this past weekend...

oh ok..you didnt say on your blog your good friend..you only called her his wife so I didnt know..lol..im glad you all can be friends..

RE: I loved this past weekend...

I'm glad you had a good time..Wow your stronger than I am too.
Your ex showed up with his new wife?
I would have left and gone to a bar that didnt have him around ..lol

RE: without someone this valentines....

If you have friends and family then you are not alone..Make it a good day anyways, buy a treat for yourself, your children, ect..Go out with friends, watch a movie..Try not to focus on negative things.. Life is short..Make the most of what you have.
Do you have a councelor you could go talk to? I sense your suffereing from low self esteem and some men prey on that and will try to use you..You can maybe also get a grant and further your education and get a great job? If you get happy with your life and make new friends, maybe a new friend will know some great guy to introduce you to who will be worth the wait?

RE: just another day right?

Its not that big of a deal to be single on that day..I'm not currently in a relationsip and I'm ok with it..You can still enjoy the day..Spoil yourself, go buy a nice chocolate for yourself or a family member, watch a movie, just enjoy the day..Every day we allow ourselves to be unhappy is a day in life we will never get back..k?

RE: hallo

hi...

RE: I'd like to complain !

You poor thing..lol..did you survive?

RE: ALASKA

LOL..The 2nd place in the states with more men than women is "hawaii"...its because of the big naval base they have there..
ive been tempted to move there but the cost of living is sky high.

RE: Rest in Peace Jack LaLanne - dead at 96

yes 96 is a longer life than the average person and im sure he felt better than the average person did before he got pnemonia.
exercise is also good for our emotional health in helping us feel great about ourselves. do you know what the last year of his fitness shows were? you mentioned he was on tv for 36 years?

RE: Guys ...! This is Unfair !

because they are afraid of looking like a wuss and also half of them are control freeks..lol

RE: Four Indicators of potential Bad Date

hilarious

RE: men bed hoppers

i agree happy43..if all women stopped making it so easy for guys then maybe we would see some good changes in men.
i dont trust any guy untill ive dated him for more than a month. even two months they could be lying and sleeping with other women while dating me.. what i cant stand the most is when they lie about it..

RE: Four Indicators of potential Bad Date

hi chococherrie..sounds like the op has had some fun dates.. lol..

RE: It's the good girls who keep diaries

viveksinha4u where do you get these silly ideas from?
i work too much to bother with a diary but i am a good woman.
you should be careful not to judge every female as bad, especially over silly things like not keeping a diary..LOL..you might find yourself very alone for the rest of your life thinking this way.

RE: No More nice Girls

Really? im a nice girl.. i dont think all women are bad..

RE: Life's too short ! ! !

as time goes by i decided i dont need to make anymore rash quick decisions on falling in love..lol..its ok to live alone too. happiness starts within ourselves..i made all my major mistakes in live when i was younger..i dont wanna have to start all over again when i reach retirement age because i made another rash decision on falling in love and marriage..very expensive to get a divorce and living with the wrong mate can be lonely and more miserable than living alone is..just be careful not to choose the wrong one for fear of living alone..good luck..

RE: Pulling me apart!

as women we are more emotional than men but be careful because most men view a woman acting emotional as a warning sign..they think women are crazy or psyco if she shows too much emotions..lol..dont let yourself be fooled into thinking you need a man right away..desperation or impatience leads to making mistakes..i was married and the guy was a complete nightmare to live with..too many women settle for way less than what they deserve...find a good man but be patient.

RE: my sins: this time of year...

I thought I was the only one who got jealouse of couples around the holidays..lol.. This year I even found myself jealouse of prince william and his fiance untill I found out they werent spending xmas together..

RE: men

musicman this is gonna be my last comment because aparantly you dont seem to understand the point that was made on filipinas blog..Plus I NEVER said she cant date someone older..I stated the facts that her profile says she does NOT want a guy older than 35..If you read her profile you would have seen that..PLUS she added in her words on her profile she wants someone cute & young..NOT older and bald..Sorry but Im just stating facts on what her profile says.. ok..im done chatting here..aparantly some people want to not face facts and are trying to steer away from what the blog meaning really is meant for.

RE: KILL ME .. KILL ME NOW !! PART 2 !

dont feel bad its not your fault if you didnt know he was married..ya sometimes it does seem like there are very few good guys but in time hopefully you will meet a good one...

RE: Men, With So Many Women on a Single Site-

ya i think most of them foolishly think they can play forever online meeting multiple women..eventually it will catch up with them and they will grow old alone..

RE: I've met someone VERY special

Poor baby, you think she might be using you? its ok..im sure she respects you in the morning...

RE: I've met someone VERY special

ya she certainly has captured your attention, just look at her tail..

RE: A merry Christmas to everybody!

thank you but christmas was a couple of days ago..lol..maybe blog should say have a happy new year?

RE: men

johnwain...at least you have a great sense of humor.
you got me laughing with your comment.

RE: Drowning in despair

Good grief..just my opinion here but do you really want to be that miserable?
happiness starts from within and no one can make us happy..
if you want to enjoy life, start with waking up and looking at the beauty in just nature itself outdoors.
take a walk, look how pretty they blue sky is, enjoy what god gave us..if you think negative then all you will feel is negative and depressed.
plus no one wants to hang out with someone whos acting down all the time..also if you are depressed all the time it could be a chemical imbalance and seeking out a professional might help.
just my advise here but i can honestly say i have not had a perfect life myself but the difference is, i dont wallow in negativity.. i pick myself up and move on..life is short as it is..no one is worth being depressed over..

RE: Christmas Boredom

Aww cheer up..It is a time of year where if we focus on what we do have and to love friends, family and fellow humans then we take the focus off of trying to find a partner..Life is too short to let not being in a relationship ruin your holiday cheer..

RE: Christmas Blues!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just my opinion here but no one really has to spend christmas alone..There are many people out there who would like to be a friend or if you have family enjoy the season with them..
Christmas is suppose to be a season where we show love towards others and its not suppose to be a what will I get out of it holiday..
Unfortunately the media and stores try to get us to think about presents and having a partner, but in reality you can be happy if you want to in almost any situation..Some people volunteer during the season to help others and find fulfillment making other people smile..Try not to focus on what you dont have but focus instead on what you do have or can do..

RE: why ????????????????

im curious what was the lie? lol

RE: GurlFriend !! You're Using Me !!

I'm sorry to hear she has become so demanding..It's sad to hear people take advantage of nice people like she appears to be doing to you..I would either tell her to stop asking so many favors or just cut her off completely as a friend..