Swissblueeyes Blog Comments (709)

RE: Yes, we men are pigs. lol

RE: Stuck

I never feel stuck if I am in a loving relationship with a man who I know loves me.
The only time I felt stuck is when my marriage got worse and my husband was not treating me right..Thats when I decided to get out..Took me two years to finally do it though.

RE: Southern man

Lucky her.. Did she meet him online Lana?

RE: I did survive

Im glad you managed to escape unharmed jim..

RE: Looking seriuse girl for marrige

@Lanas comment...

RE: I love it!

Thanks for sharing the photo of him...

RE: I love it!

Lana.. with him i think you will really need to scare him off.. tell him you want to elope with him tomorrow and make sure he brings plenty of cash because you expect to be living in a stylish manner..

RE: I love it!

ya it works like a charm..if you dont want to hurt a mans feelings just start acting like a woman who would scare him off.. like tell him you expect to be married in 6 more months. cool. here is more chocolate for ya.. i also like hersheys with almonds.

RE: I love it!

RE: I love it!

Sure I bought a few of them.. you can have one too.

RE: Here's to....

no i still eat and drink water.. Lmao..
but thanks for the advise..

RE: I love it!

speaking of chocolate.. i just bought some hersheys bars yesterday.. guess i needed something...

RE: I love it!

lol lana.. either way is not good in a mans eyes.
telling them to get lost wont work either..

just bat your pretty eyes at them and say oh maybe i will be available next weekend..i will let you know tomorrow ok?
keep it light in the beginning and dont set expectations too high. Then as time goes by, let "him" feel he is wanting a relationsip..If he doesnt.. then move on and find one who will.

or just enjoy dating a few men and see if one of them is on the same page as you are..

RE: I love it!

Lana.. Hopefully none of my comments got you upset.
It is interesting to see mens view on things and after reading articles on dating, it confirms to me the dating experts were correct.

Yes I think we as humans do need love and its fine, but with men, you have to tread kind of carefully what words you choose with them in a new relationship or one that is going good for awhile.

The word "need" does sometimes strike fear in alot of mens eyes. as well as the words "committment".. well in a new dating and meeting men it will for sure..

RE: I love it!

Frank.. lol.. got me laughing with your comment.

RE: Here's to....

I've been saving for a new home..hopefully my dream home..so, right now Im watching my spending..I doubt sound cards cost very much but just the same, the house is my top priority right now.

RE: I don't need you...

I would never tell a man I "need" him..For two reasons..One is he might assume Im needy..because need is in that word.
The second reason is because he might assume he has power over me and that I cannot live without him.

I might however tell him I need his strong arms to help open up a jar for me though..

RE: Here's to....

ya parti.. lol..

RE: Here's to....

I couldnt hear what the video said because my sound card isnt working.. What happened to norm?

RE: are

hi edibleleo.. ya i think the blog and forum rules are to keep people from flooding the boards with tons of blogs every day.
plus most people like to chat about one subject at a time and if they are having a good time on a blog and you post another one minutes later, the blog room only will show your recent blog.
gets kind of confusing to other members.

RE: trying something diffrent.

I like curried chicken...I dont know what fu fu is though.

RE: how to give up some1 whom u love but didnt love u

@Friendhere...It does not matter how nice you act or how nice you treat someone if they are not attracted to you physically or emotionally, they wont fall in love based on just someone acting nice.

Chemistry and other things have to be all there or it wont work.
Its best to move on and stop obsessing over someone who isnt interested.. Yes lots of people might look attractive to us but that does not mean they will feel the same.

Cant force someone to like you if they dont want to or they arent feeling the same attraction.

RE: confident or arrogant

Theres a big difference between confidence and arrogance.
Arrogance is when the person is down right mean and thinks they are better than everyone.

Confidence is when you feel good about yourself and you can also treat others nice.

RE: Which would you choose?

Hi Jana..Ya us women dont have to settle..we can choose a man who is attractive on the outside as well as on the inside.

RE: Sunday great day fun day

Thanks Jim..I like Simply Red songs..

RE: Sunday great day fun day

Every day is a good reason to try and enjoy, even after a long work day..

RE: Don't worry !

hilarious..Reminds me of a cat me and my sister got when we were kids...At night time she would sit on the end of my bed watching the walls when a car would drive by and see car headlights shine moving on the wall when it drove by, she would jump at it and fall back on the bed..

RE: What is your opinion on True Love?

NO... A bad marriage is the contact lense..
Best to be careful who you marry and wait for the right one to come along..Otherwise it wont be a happy union..

RE: What is your opinion on True Love?

True love is when you grow to love the person and not just their body..Even when they wake up looking like something the cat dragged in, you can still look at them with love..

Are you a happy person?

ya Steve.. I've lived in michigan my whole life and I noticed alot of the people here are messed up.
When I've traveled to other states like Florida where many folks are friendly, kind and care about their neighbors..