& I thought I was the only insomniac on here.. ya lets have a insomniac party.. i was up last night untill 6 am. feel half brain dead right now typing this though.
hi fairie..i used to try too hard to change something about someone i would be emotionally involved with untill i matured and realized it is a waste of time.
so many women settle for less than decent treatment and then they try and change the guy..it usually does not work.
@Zaffa..from what i can see many men either pick a woman out of their league or they have unrealistic expectations out of a potential mate or they just plain have poor mate picking skills.
find a woman who is in your league who knows what she wants. this is the best advice i can give you.. good luck
I think almost everyone has experienced both of these situations in their lives.. Its always best to move on if it doesnt work..They say there is a match for everyone out there..Lifes too short to focus on who isnt.
i agree lana..gross point is actually suppose to be a high class area.. the name doesnt sound like it though. lol sometimes i wonder who came up with some of the city names around here and what were they drinking when they named them?
ya Lana i think it is in the drinking water here in michigan..its called dummy syndrome with these guys. lmao
i had the same problem with a few guys on here. one i blocked 3 times and the guy would delete his profile and make a new one to contact me.
he lives in gross point and after finally caving in and letting him call me, i regretted it. he was a real psyco..told me he had a hand gun and how he beat up the guy next door for calling his kid a name, ect, ect.
his ex wife had a ppo against him and the story kept getting worse.. so of course i blocked him again.. i think he finally gave up after making 5 different profiles.
ive met guys like that..they say they "demand" trust. I tell them, trust is to be earned, not something given on demand..then of course they dont call anymore and use the words, oh you dont trust men..
it just tells me they cant be trusted when they do stuff like that.. my ex husband used to demand trust too and he couldnt be trusted as far as you could throw him..
well aparantly the old school way is half extinct online.. more than half the men are just looking for hookups. some say they want a good woman. lol..uhuh.
meet them and they cant find anything wrong with you but they obsess over the not so hot lady who lives with her parents, is over 40, alcoholic and has 3 kids who are constantly in trouble.
yes, this has happened to me.. i met a guy, dated him 3 times, every time he said things like, you get hotter every date i meet you..calls me and tells me he cant find anything wrong with me but keept yapping and obsessing over this lady with all the problems.
has me convinced good guys think their lives are so boring, they want a woman who will give them drama..
Rosco..If your going to post a blog, its always a good idea to post a response to people who post a comment.. Otherwise you will lose peeps who will post ever again on your future blogs.
I never could understand why people post blogs and never post a response to anyone on it..
well good luck.. im not the fighter type and actually most women want a man to show more interest in the beginning. the reason why is, we want to feel safe in giving our hearts out to a man and not set ourselves up for hurt..
sorry but i wont be "fighting" for you OR any guy..
When I was in grammar school and played with the kids in the neighborhood, I always got picked as the "mommy"..Yes their brother would eagerly vote me in.
Little did I realize, it was a prelude to just them trying to get a cuddle and a kiss..Boy was I naive back then.
RE: Close to giving up.
parti..