For me it would never worked out, my mum wouldn't even make me pick on address of her chose for chrismass, i prefered to go back home and come with my dad who understood me better, and knew my taste was different from most of my mates.
With modern society they do it indirectly by telling u how ur neighbour is well bahaved, respective, good grades in school etc. I think even in those arranged marriages in most societies today don't work. I knew of lately of a case where a girl escaped from her rich husband from S. Arabia. My opinion is with live in different times and the whole world is changing as its doing with climatic changes.
At the same time through friends people meet and there is attraction un like, with arranged marriages of some ethics groups i consider the parents only acted for their own interest, as they got the dowry without considering the emotional needs of the couples.
At the same time there was advantage of such marriage both families knew themselves well, and the mother-in laws issues were already solved, as she had already accepted her daughter-in law.
Thanks all my fellow collegues for u comments plus advice. I am an ameature in this, may be next time should not make same mistake. For Mr. Jimnastake it had nothing to do with finances. I had never been able to handle falsely accusations.
I think like human being we get the brain plus knowledge to decide on what we do, from there other's classfies our did and come's out with the word behaviour. Human being dominates all, is to be blamed of alot of the disaster's execept natural calamities
Nope is not true, i think u r talking about another site coz in this one i have not seen any profile where anyone asked for a perfect man coz perfect human beings don't exist, look for ur wright match
Hey Billy, After i finished my high school i did invite my secret admirer to visit as i was home alone, but he did no my intentions. It has been long this my girl friend was pushing me to try to be a full woman and i thought this was the night. All was well till when was five o'clock and was his time to sneek out of the house, but he crashed with my bro. returning from his night out. They exchanged a few blows and of course my protective bro. give me a piece of his mind on how this was shameless plus bla bla and so on..... but i had already started onother era on my personal life and nothing was the same again.
It's interesting that u write this issue. Did u know what the efforts which r put b4 the coffee was packeted and put in cup? I happned to be born and brought up in a small coffe plantation. The day of harvesting we wake up 5 a.m, had limited time for break fast, prepare the sacks, backets and divided the areas for the casual workers who reported early.
Mostly the coffee is picked twice or three times a week. Unfortunately till now no one have invented a machine to pick coffee is done manury coz u have to select the ripe bean leaving the green to get ripe. The picking coffee seasons rain fall heavly and we continue the harvesting as we have limited time to get to factory to mill and we still do second selection, the first grade beans and second grade. In my place it's hilly and we had to put bags on our back as the small tractor would not get to all corners. We had a bit as i can't call it lunch inside the same farm and occasionally a cup of tea or porridge of which i went to make when my daddy decided that we needed something to warm us.
As we get to the factory did the selection of the first grade, the second and register our number which was 702 and wait on the queue. Sometimes on higher season we would spend three days waiting and i remember we even spent most chrismass there, although i enjoyed it, as it was only time i would see my secret admire without my brothers notice. For me i don't take coffee, i think of it as hell. If u really need fresh one take a cup 5 am, tomorrow
whether the word come from mouth, nose or down, it is said at appropriate minute is okey. If after second we say other things, we may say when we r annoyed is also okey. Unfortunately sometimes is not reciprocal we might tell to pple who don't feel that way. In short, no chemistry or formular about this, but is really beautiful thing when we feel en taste it.
shikoomuch Blog Comments (12)
I AM HURT, SOMETHING SAID
Rest be assured is not the case, okey