-particolor- I used a piece of poetry to see if I could stir some conversation out of people as to what they are looking for, memories of the past or where they are now. Out of all the reads, Belle and Lana expressed their feelings or opinions and 10k had a beer. So I guess even poetry can't bring out the romantic opinions people hold, whatever they may be. Even you made comments, but not in regards to the subject. Guess I will stick to leaving comments and letting others do the blogging. Cheers..........
Luna, I don't think he will have to say anything when you look into his eyes. You will know because you will only see yourself within his eyes and know that his every thought is you. That is how... If we search for anything else, we settle and all is in vain...
Belle, I don't think you are being pessimistic. But isn't that what we should be looking for? That is the chemistry that creates the fairy tale people have stopped believing in. If we don't try and just settle, then that is what we will get. We will settle for less. It doesn't mean that it wont be difficult at times. Compromise works that way. Giving a little, receiving a little. All because we adore the other and they us. Maybe it's me, but that is a great part of love. Not just saying it, but living it, breathing it, giving it and receiving it.
I don't know that it is acceptable or not. Frowned upon or not. I haven't dated that much, but been blessed to date different races and nationalities. The way I see it, it is up to each. If others don't like it then too bad. The world needs to get over it and move forward. Date who you like and when you fall in love, who cares what the world thinks.
It's total chemistry. Attraction is not just in looks, but that is part of it. Who wants to wake up next to someone they are not attracted too? But there is so much more to make someone beautiful and that is the totality of chemistry. Even when you don't get along or agree, can you communicate with that person. Are their needs and wants as important as yours and do you know that they look at you the same way? There is so much to it and too often, we settle for one or two things that attract us and beyond that, we try to make it work. Is it her smile? Or the smile in her mouth, eyes, heart and soul? If it's all of them, then there is TRUE chemistry and great attraction... you get what I mean...
Loneliness=the sound of a heart that breaks and there are no ears to hear the pieces fall. Your not alone dude. But better to wait for the right one, then settle in your despair.
It's funny because we put down about ourselves and that is good. We put down what we would like or expect of another, and that's good. Then again when you think about it, if you truly fell for someone and they with you, the things you wanted or didn't wouldn't seem so big and important with the correct chemistry. You know or believe it would work and you would be willing to work on it. I believe much of it has to do with our own happiness as we look for someone. We still find friends, we still get disappointed, but we continue. If we can be as happy as possible with ourselves, I think we have a better chance at finding that right one. Doesn't mean it isn't difficult especially when the loneliness sets in. But if you are truly trying to be happy with yourself, you are probably being honest about yourself. If someone doesn't like you for being you, obviously they aren't the right person. Most of the time when I mess up with someone, is when I am struggling with myself. To be me, not what they want or expect. There are those I don't even try with because of their expectations. Some, I find the expectations later. But unless I talk to woman at least as a friend, they will never know me and neither will I... Be yourself and be happy. Life will be better and you will find the right one...
I wouldn't eat it. You are guaranteed life, but not health. The bottom probably reads something like, "You would be amazed at how much pain you can live through..."
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