Hi Johnny ... Thank you for reading and commenting.. It's a breath of fresh air to see a guy share his thoughts on this.. We all are guilty of being mediocre later in our relationships... This blog is part of the poem I posted the same day... Was just too long to go with it so posted it here instead. I think most men tend to put work before their women... Family. It was with my ex.... And my husband now. Just unfortunate that most women I believe whether they show it or not... Longs for more time ... Quality with their men. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this... It is most appreciated....
Kumusta Kabsat .... I do post once in a while... This was actually an info for the last poem I posted but realised it's too long so I thought I should post it as a blog and just reference it to my poem. Yes it wasn't a walk in the park with my ex but out org respect he was full of life... He had given me more than anyone has, pampered me more than anyone has.... He's the most generous person I have ever known... Most romantic guy I've ever been with... Unfortunately the areas that I was most sensitive are the areas he failed.... But I'm glad and am grateful for the experience and the life he was able to provide for me.
I'm happy where I am now ... No regrets... Sometimes a peaceful life where you know you are loved and treated as an equal because of who you are can make a woman a lot happier than a lavish existence that does not quench her emotional needs or longings.
Thanks my friend for dropping by... Haven't heard from you for sometime...
@123 butterfly ... Yes no regrets... It wasn't an easy decision... He was a wonderful guy in many ways but the areas that I was most sensitive of... Thanks for reading and leaving a comment... Much appreciated
@123 butterfly ... Yes no regrets... It wasn't an easy decision... He was a wonderful guy in many ways but the areas that I was most sensitive of... Thanks for reading and leaving a comment... Much appreciated
JS: you are quite right...but if we try harder we can appreciate them while they are with us... my logic is "no point praising them when they can no longer hear those praises"... thanks for dropping in
@Ravensgold...thanks for dropping by...I actually enjoy blogging (lost my blogsite...my fault for not renewing...that's 4 years of my writing but can't be bothered now to try and get it back...it was my therapy...well a much cheaper therapy ) Thanks once again...
Hi there LK... Yes thank you I'm blessed by having him to share everything with.. Joy, fun, happiness multiplies and worries, fears, problems divided... I think I can call that a blessing. Thank you so much for ur comment:
Phyllis agyamanak met kabsat...and have just started going through your blogs...didn't realize you've written a lot. I have not been on this side of CS for a long time...catch you at PC... Happy Valentine!
There's no greater love than this...you are truly blessed! I was an absentee mom when my kids are little because I was the one working. My kids only knew I was not there and I missed out on my chance to establish a physical/psychological bond with them. I struggled to win their love and approval for years. But now they are older, things have changed. I guess they now realize how much I had to sacrifice to give them the chance for a brighter future. Even the simplest picnic on a park with them can really make my day! I know how you are feeling...may the Lord continually bless you and your kids...
it's normal to feel a little bit disappointed when no one notices or bothers...but you must remember a blog is as personal as your personal journal; if someone drops by and comment that's a bonus...as long as you are happy dear...that's all that matters!
Thank you for your thoughts; you are absolutely right. Sometimes it takes only one kind word, a smile, a pat on back to pull someone out of the blues..."it's not how many times we fall but how many times we get up" that counts.
Pacificfans...the value of a home is defined by the people that live in it, not the leaves that holds it's walls. My visit to Samoa opened my eyes. Just think why you guys are a lot more happier people than those who live in walled cities....
Five Love Languages
Hi Johnny ... Thank you for reading and commenting.. It's a breath of fresh air to see a guy share his thoughts on this.. We all are guilty of being mediocre later in our relationships... This blog is part of the poem I posted the same day... Was just too long to go with it so posted it here instead. I think most men tend to put work before their women... Family. It was with my ex.... And my husband now. Just unfortunate that most women I believe whether they show it or not... Longs for more time ... Quality with their men. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this... It is most appreciated....