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Lying about age.

From memory, I can’t recall ever being in contact with someone on CS that didn’t lie about his or her age. Although I now state my correct age, for...
3,2811200Aug 2015Aug 201524 hrs ago

Dear Jane letter

Been dating this modelesque woman for a short while (certainly too good looking for the likes of me) and although she has a body like the statue of Ve...
3,056810Aug 2015Aug 20155 hrs ago

Dating Hermits.. a rant!

Time and time again I read statements from women on profiles, blogs and forums that state “Not looking for a fling or casual sex”, not only is this de...
3,021300Mar 2015Mar 2015Apr 20

Pick up lines

When contacting someone new, I always seem to have difficulty deciding what to write as my opening gambit, especially if in the persons profile there...
2,865910Aug 2015Jul 201817 hrs ago

Profile photos

Considering the number of members that choose not to post a photo on their profile page, I am wondering whether the inclusion of photos plays a role i...
2,864800Jul 2016Jun 202317 hrs ago

Bedroom Etiquette!

Is there, or should there be such a thing as bedroom etiquette? What for you are the do’s and dont’s in the bedroom?...
2,858400Mar 2015Mar 2015Apr 20

HAIR

Is the length of your hair a sign of your age, or your social standing? More and more I see the younger generation of men with shaved heads while t...
2,608130Sep 2015Sep 2015Apr 20

Why are you hiding?

This is a blog to all the faceless profiles. There seems to be an inconsistency in the reasoning as to why people join a DATING site then dont pres...
2,420430Mar 2015Mar 2015Apr 20

Controversial blog

Just an observation and not that it matters at all to me, however, from posts made over the past month or so it is evident that a shed load of members...
2,351640Nov 2015Nov 201524 hrs ago

I am not into one night stands.

It is amazing how many women write in their profile “I'm not looking for one night stands or friends with benefits, so please pass me by.” Whats ev...
2,207520Jul 2015Jul 2015Apr 20

Our very own soap!

Every day thousands of people watch soap operas on television, they are fascinated by the volatile ins and outs of the relationships and daily lives o...
2,174400Nov 2015Nov 2015Apr 20

Deleting

Two questions here... Firstly, when a person is deleted by the mods or deletes their profile, does everything disappear? (mails I have sent or rece...
2,111460Aug 2015Aug 20159 hrs ago

Are you what you drive?

They say the car you drive reflects your personality. So, what do you drive and does your car promote the type of person you are? I drive a 4liter...
2,030480May 2016May 2016Apr 21

Money, Money, Money

Never been able to keep a penny in the bank, always found when I had a bit of spare cash, either a bill came in for the same amount or the money just...
1,990390Oct 2015Oct 2015Apr 20

Answer me this!

Why is it that members (along with several bloggers) deem to regularly hide their profile? I know there are times I have upset people with comments...
1,985330Jul 2016Jul 2016Apr 20

Chasing Shadows

Do you ever get times when you feel sentimental and reflect on past relationships? Do the good times you had together run through your mind like a...
1,935760Sep 2015Sep 2015Apr 20

What is it with you people?

There is an old saying.. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but, words will never hurt me", however, it seems this is not the case when it comes t...
1,931330Sep 2016Sep 2016Apr 20

Happy Birthday

to.... ME, ME, ME, ME... Yeah! At last, hit the big Six. Have to say the last four months have be a long slog during which time I...
1,888460Jul 2016Jul 2016Apr 21

What’s love got to do with it?

The reasons why people enter into relationships or decide to get married are many and varied. In many cases “love” is not the initial primary factor,...
1,826660Sep 2015Sep 2015Apr 20

Running on Automatic

Are relationships as complicated as some people make them out to be? Surely, once the initial adjustments have been made, the relationship should...
1,789420Jun 2016Jun 2016Apr 20

If only Women were Men.

When a guy has a buddy, they go see each other at each others’ place, go down the pub together, shoot the breeze, have a meal together, watch the box...
1,666340Dec 2015Dec 2015Apr 20

I know why you will always be single (A reflection

When we are young and our whole life is ahead of us, we have dreams and ambitions that drive us towards achieving our goals. For some, having a fa...
1,658320Jan 2016Jan 20164 hrs ago

Boring... Boring... Boring...

Geeeeezzzzzzzzzz... (a lot of snoring at the end of Geeez).. Why? Because all of you bloggers haven't posted a decent blog in ages. If you cant thi...
1,645430Dec 2015Dec 2015Apr 20

Its a mans world?

Was having coffee with a woman the other day when the subject turned to dating sites and relationships. The woman said to me it must be great being...
1,632490Aug 2015Aug 2015Apr 20

Are you a Kisser?

Do you like to melt into the arms of your lover in long passionate kisses, or are you content with those simple pecks on the lips? Do the surround...
1,611350Sep 2015Sep 2015Apr 20

Scalped.... Again!

Some of you may remember how horrified I was the last time I went to the barbers and came away scalped (scapled even! ) Well this time it wa...
1,594430Nov 2015Nov 20159 hrs ago

Profile Reviews

Whenever I buy online I always check the reviews on the products I am interested in purchasing. Likewise, when going on holiday I check the reviews of...
1,586280Apr 2015Apr 2015Apr 20

Face to face

Ask anyone for advice in solving a personal problem, dumping a relationship or just ironing out a few gripes and the answer you’ll get is... Talk to t...
1,542720Sep 2015Sep 20157 hrs ago

What side of the bed?

Do you have a side of the bed you prefer when sleeping with someone? I am ambidextrous, so for me it doesnt matter what side of the bed I am on, I...
1,498440Aug 2015Aug 20155 hrs ago

Life begins after 55

There was a time when being in one’s fifties meant you were old, unemployable, stuck in a rut and just waiting to be one of life’s dearly departed....
1,464260Aug 2015Aug 2015Apr 20

Scapled... Eeeek!

Like many of us that go to the hairdresser, we like to get our moneys worth, however, when one has as little hair as I do, the least I expect is to le...
1,464390Sep 2015Sep 2015Apr 20

Answer me this...

Warning... s*xual content! Do not read if easily offended, are under the age of consent or too old to remember what sex is! Question A... Why do w...
1,432260Nov 2015Nov 2015Apr 21

Relationship Chameleons

At the start of every relationship there is a certain amount of what is called “compromise” as people make changes from singledom to living as a coupl...
1,429150Oct 2015Oct 2015Apr 20

Does size matter

when you are browsing around the local shop and come across the chockie counter. Are you into those wonderful BIG slabs of chocolate or are you a m...
1,427430Oct 2015Oct 20156 hrs ago

Hijackers!

I initially typed quite a nice blog detailing my thoughts on this subject, but then thought, “bugger it, better get straight to the point”. Will al...
1,425240Jul 2016Jul 2016Apr 20

Peace in the valley?

Errr... no dont think so. I recently wrote a blog expressing my puzzlement as to why several members had decided to leave CS to grieve over the illnes...
1,424310Jun 2015Jun 2015Apr 20

When a lover becomes a brother

Not all relationships end badly, in some cases following a relationship a deep friendship ensues that in many ways can be more worthwhile than the rel...
1,417190Dec 2015Dec 2015Apr 20

Women and Wimps

Is it true that most women want a guy who knows exactly how they feel at any given moment, the sensitive type yet sufficiently manly to make a woman f...
1,388160Jul 2015Jul 2015Apr 20

Heydays

CS was once a vibrant site offering the possibilities of finding romance among the copious volume of regularly active members. These days, the number...
1,365330Jul 2016Jul 20163 hrs ago

Vlogs

There seems to be a new trend developing on the CS blogs. At first I thought the word Vlog was a type error as the “v” and “b” are next to each other...
1,345180Jun 2016Jun 2016Apr 20

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