Quit gettin uptight Jan we are just talking here and catching some sunday evening fun okay. I love kids and have no problem if I hook up with someone that has kids, I will love his kids and even feel glad and blessed that I have step kids. Now loosen up a bit darling.Smile!
Yes Baby! Ha-ha-he-he I am having fun here but seriously(coolady whispers to 70libra)these "no kids" men are getting on my nerves here. They better go get another "no kids" planet for themselves he-he.
Thanks but don't make me feel terrible sweetie, I love kids very much and when people are talking about their grandchildren beside me, I almost want to cry as in "I have no kids and some are already enjoying their grandkids".
If they have finished procreating, they should fr**king make way for us to procreate too. Just kidding! They are annoying and it sounds selfish to me. It sounds like "I have my own kids and don't care about you". Once I open a profile and see that "No kids" sign, I run like crazy. LOL
Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
@Whowhatwhere This is dedicated to you sweetheart. I am touched by your understanding, compassion and great heart. I read where you were almost defending me and my heart's desires. Thanks Sweetie, you have a compassionate heart like me and I appreciate you because this is the first time I am getting this kind of understanding on this issue from another. May God bless you sister. Amen, May God bless every other sweet persons that commented here. I intend to close the thread now because when you open the delicate places of your heart to others like this, you may be inviting many an unfeeling persons to come walk all over your heart. You guys have been sweet and nice so far and I have gathered some modicum of strength from some of you. Thanks to you all. The new Kittie katie family that were having their fun here, I beg to interrupt your sweet fun but you can still talk to yourselves through mails or something. I hate to interrupt your fun and di enjoy your sense of humour, tha is what life should be about loving, smiling and living not bickeering. Thanks everybody. Hugs and kisses to all of you.
I understand the angle you are oming from dearie, I definitely can't meet a man today and begin to throw babies and marriage in his face. I have never raised that issue in a relationship, I always let things take its cause and use my brain to assess things.
I am only sharing it here because sometimes one just can't help reaching out to others for strength and thanks to you all nice persons for taking out time to comment and comfort. to you all.
@Mmanika Sweetheart, if I have a partner in the first place I will be smiling down at my baby/babies(could even be twins)in the next one year. The partner is just not there to complete the equation for me.
Do bear with me People, I didn't put those longings in myself. Methinks it's even part of nature's mathematics at replenishing our earth so I ain't to blame for loving babies and wanting some. Am I?
Thanks dearies, I know that I can adopt or artificially inseminate. I want to have my own biological ones as I am fertile and have no fertility problem. If I have to adopt it may be later after I have had 2 or 3 of mine. I appreciate your warm words all the same. it meant much to me.
Just when did all these lovely persons storm my thread, sorry I haven't been on the thread for a while. .....and Mr. Looking4MissRight was giving all these good testimony about me, thanks sweetheart. Hugs to you all for hanging out here, Warmed my heart a bit.
I am seeking a person that truly longs to have a family and can treat a woman good too. I should'nt blow my trumpet but I am a responsible person that has great love and warmth in my heart. I chose to open up and say it as it is in my heart and hope I don't get frowned at. The world is full of people so why live in loneliness when we all can share love and warmth? Why be closed up about the true feelings of the heart when it is the reality? Thanks
I mean even kids respect the tender feelings of others. Never mind, I have cleaned out those posts because it is what you give power to affect you that affects you. Thanks Pips
@Islandlady I am touched by your disappointment, don't allow the attitude oone person give you bad notions about loving and living. Love makes life, rosy dearie. I hope you will meet somebody who will rewrite the story for you and have you singing another song of love.
I am astounded at the attitudes of some posters herein, Do mature adults really exhibit these behaviours in this age and time.I expected more refined attitude than that, it's only uncontrolled kids that talk to people that opened their delicate heart's desire to others.
I am seeking a person that truly longs to have a family and can treat a woman good too. I should'nt blow my trumpet but I am a responsible person that has great love and warmth in my heart. I chose to open up and say it as it is in my heart and hope I don't get frowned at. The world is full of people so why live in loneliness when we all can share love and warmth? Why be closed up about the true feelings of the heart when it is the reality? Thanks.
I am seeking a person that truly longs to have a family and can treat a woman good too. I should'nt blow my trumpet but I am a responsible person that has great love and warmth in my heart. I chose to open up and say it as it is in my heart and hope I don't get frowned at. The world is full of people so why live in loneliness when we all can share love and warmth? Why be closed up about the true feelings of the heart when it is the reality? Thanks.
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WHY DO NOBODY WANTS TO BE WITH ANYBODY HERE AND WHAT WITH ALL THESE "WANTS NO KIDS RAVE"?
@Single4everThis is actually meant to be a chit-chat humorous thread so don't take it too serious girlie.