Yes ill have to do it a little better next time & try & have contact before comeing over.
Just as an idear of what i have done ,
When i came over 3 weeks ago i stayed with my friend & his Mum down in Tas for 6 days then 3 days in Katoomba west of Syd at the Carrington Hotel was lovely, with our group of 85 people, I was allso incharge of the photo side of things & did have a good time before comeing up hereby train.
It would be just lovely to catch & just over a cupper some time,
I joined this forum to hopefully just meet other people & to make friends.& While over here i thought i may be able to meet up with some from our forum,& it was not to be because of my hip displasment. so no walking about.
at the moment im in QLD Vasity Lakes till monday then up to Helensvale Then on friday fly back home to Ch Ch then Waimate N Z ,in the south isl i see we had a covering of snow. any ways,
So may be in two years i hope to come back, so maybe ill be able to meet up with others from here,
I'v been on here for a bit longer & i have found many are a lot younger than i & many of cause over sea's , Iv not found many from here in N Z so dont think its so easy , one other detail is that there are many who dont wont to have contact form Austraila even just to say hi. & be friends , so thats changed my idear of even bothering to send a email post or any thing , so i have learnt a few things being on dateing sites, . tho on another site we have a lot of scammer's . & every thing they say or put up on the sites is lie's , & its only for kiwi's & even here none bother answering . so there you go. ]
i should have said who Jos is, we were married for 35 out of 37 years, had our marrage annuld & yes we are & allways will be friends , Jos is liveing by her self for now & how ever long she needs to, Jos needs to be away from me & time out ,
you know the story = = haveing two women in the kitchen . I see Jos every week so no probs.
well its 8 16 p m here. & iv had a nice day with our Granddaughter whos 8 y 5 m . we just did a bit of shoping a little food & as we go to the same place , pack & save theres a shoe shop. so you know the drill we stop & have a look .
Then we went to a park that we'v been to before & did not stop so went to Jos's place & i had to get a tile cutter for some tils im doing both mine & for our daughter. who is the Mum of our 8 y 5 m grandaugter. & her other 2 kides , so spent the afternoon there with them & Jos. was a nice day lovely & sunny , yes it's winter here tho we do get nice day's .
For myself im quite busy with our groups plus doing my woodwork .
Most wesdays i pick Jos up we do shoping & spend time to gether having a look around & i meet friends i know as well we are quite well known so just a nice social day as well .
thursdays im on call out with the St Johns & doing training as a medic. have done some before with the military. at Antartica .
& if i get bored i can take our female lab =dog for walks & meet up again with friends i know at the & around the Village .
& ill start on getting weather boards ready for replacement on our house & painting . so plenty to do. plus cut fire wood .
That gives you an idear of some things i do. 8 35 pm now
I know im on the other side of the world , yet i have many friends not just where we live in Waimate . i have a very big group of friends most are women & like even to day i see or have seen many this morning . many of my other friends i have are on our forums so really this site is for me to have other people out side of those i know & ether see or just do posts to or through our emailing.
As to dateing or dateing sites i can under write them off as a not going to happen, I actually thought i may be able to meet up with other women . i think im very wrong in as far as thats concerned. & the other detail was told to me about the scammers,
as i'v allready had some on our other forums & we soon have them sorted & rejected. any ways i still like the idear tho i know for me its about getting to know others who are for real.
Real life is what we are about so dont worrry to much , as you have work & a little one to look after so thats important for you both. if you do have to go ,
Being lonely , even tho you do have friends that does not take away the lonelyness. & being stressed out is not good,
I know it may not help just now ,so take a breath & enjoy the rose's smell the perfume & pamper your self take some time for you, give your self a break ,
Your circumstance's are like many of those i help so its not easy & it takes time to work through
Take care of your self & do take that time you need.
I'd have to say for me nil & with in N Z pretty close as well.
What i am finding is most are half my age , & if any my age , are or could be interested in talking or doing posts wont. even just to say hi..
none are interested in replying some thing i find strange as im on many forums tho a lot different from this one & we discuss many issue's that effect us , & yes i am trusted .
So im learning that to have friends on dateing sites does not work. & yes i come from a different background.
Any way & for this part trust in some people can be mislaied so may be this is the or a reason why most wont make any contact. Sure have learnt a lot in the last few weeks.
Two parts to my name noel-eena, the first part of noel or no-el is my birth name & is both male or female
as to noeleena that is my legal name & yes those who know me & my background know me as noeleena. tho a few will allways call me noel..& i prefer people to know who i am ,
Can you change Are you sesitive to others Do you build them up. Are you willing to step back & allow others to grow . do you allow others to show you where you are wrong,
can you for give. & still love that one. Would you sacrifice your self for the other. & would you look after that one if health fails.
Hard to keep yet shows the real person inside, & not a taker.
If there are no illegal background ,court cases pending , they are able to get a passport visa & all documents as to pertaining to the person, birth certs all those details birth Mum & dad . why they are going , leaveing documents from over here . & documents for landing in the U S or where ever.
you need to see immigratstion , passports , have pics taken,
The time you are allowed to stay & if your visa needs to be renewed . possibale of returning back to place of departure to have it renewed, now if things have been changed then check all that out first,
Thats a start.
as to staying in The U S as a resident you need to check your side , immigratstion. & so on. & i think info from here will be checked. both sides of the water,
One or two things seem to be , that i have sent a post to a number of people & never get a reply,
So iv sent a email to the web master asking it would be nice to say to prople if one gets a message or email , post , it would be nice to know they have receved your letter & just to say thank you & or your not interested, in takeing it futher.
Im from the old school & the least id expect is just a note & say some thing .
On an other FREE site iv had 4 men send me a email each & i have replyed to them. & nothing will come of that , yet they took the time to write me so i replyed back.
The Payed sites are as said a con because you have to subcribe & then may be hmmm im not so sure , its a lure to get your money ,,
& since they have not told the truth im pulling down on them all , Its free they say yea right only to get you in then say you have to pay if you wont contact with others, no thanks im outa those , I like here because i think most are real people,
Now the ? is am i....he he ....& if you wont to check put my name on the net, my profile is there.
Iv done quite a few pics of our group we do a few things there as well not allways with our group .
The best thing here is we are a good community in as much we do just do things & we have a lot going on with over 150 groups, soc.& clubs So is it any wonder we know each others groups & get on pretty well pop under 5000,
So high tea then, thats so....refreshing, oh would you ..passing the scones , oh how delightful , thank you dear.
So the weather has been kind to you . have you been swiming ,you look so flushed , oh it is so hot ,,,,,
Oh that reminds me, we ,,our ,,Edwardian girls are haveing an afternoon on friday 29, would you so kindy like to come along , its at Caf`e on Queens in high st in Waimate,
& yes its for real ill be doing photos the occasion dressing in wedding dress s
Hi . There is another way to look at this , a bit like a school get gether. like meeting school friends as i have done last year .& that was 1957 school times
no harm in saying hi . does not have to lead any were does it , up to you tho,
So after haveing babies looking after them bring them up of cause theres food sleep washing ironing getting food in meales & the list goes on & yes we do go visting some were in between .. youi should know the saying a womans work is never done & what do meen do we have a forum that says .
MOAN ABOUT MEN now i wonder what we have to say,,,,,,,
When i arrived in syd i was taken to a caffe at night 1 / 2 hour after customs , not to far away from there, concord.
we had some 18 of us & there were lots of food places & such,
like heres this army boot wearing Kiwi with a heavy pack comes in well i got the looks they did not expect me to turn up for thier group . well it was fun & yes i met 160 people 3 days after at the mercure hotel for our yearly ball. & that was fun. 3 days there, & i did a lot of walking around .
Try footing it from the Mercure Hotel to the centre in syd. & then the train back to the hotel. oh not with the pack tho ,
Shoping well i dont do it alone most wensdays i pick Jos up & we do food shoping , then have a look in the shops at the second hand clothes & if theres any thatll fit,
oh dear we just had another earth quake up north, north isl.
one reason we dont have lots to spend on new clothes any way & i quite enjoy shoping even if i dont buy any its really just nice being out & truth really is its about socialising, that for me is what its about meeeting people & talking , & when schools out we have our grandaughter some times with us & shes neat, having around 8 y 4 m..a neat kid
As this is about over 30 s try over 50s as your finding out im a member of our Edwardian group , we go out & put on different things & get to gethers of cause we dress for the times of cause
of the 20 or so who are at most of our times to gether we have about 7 of us who are single plus we have any were between 80 to 2000 people come to different functions we have thats out side of our normal dos, many of cause are married & with partners does not stop others from joining our groups plus others im in ,
some times as iv done we need to join groups , thers some really nice people out there .like im finding here
Oh, how lovely nice to meet you & oh how neat & with background , so nice , Prussian & scottish & a bit of ya ya English thank you . he he ,, sheep oh yea them,,,,,
we have just had more earth quakes again & i see up in qlds as well.
Please do. our other one is our Edwardian 1900 to 1910 thats our time we dont have a site yet tho i think ill bring that up as i do the photogragphy for our group in the region of 2000 pics so far over i think itll be allmost 4 years . The Renaissance iv done about 700 pics tho im not sure if some have been put up due to our E Q = earth quakes ill find out when i know the others are up & running ,
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RE: What are we looking for
HiThank you Nature,
Yes ill have to do it a little better next time & try & have contact before comeing over.
Just as an idear of what i have done ,
When i came over 3 weeks ago i stayed with my friend & his Mum down in Tas for 6 days then 3 days in Katoomba west of Syd at the Carrington Hotel was lovely, with our group of 85 people, I was allso incharge of the photo side of things & did have a good time before comeing up hereby train.
It would be just lovely to catch & just over a cupper some time,
Thank you again,
...noeleena...