Hi , As a thought tho we have the same probs in Christchurch built on a bog & yes they wont to rebuild there in the zone , I was there in the 60 s working there & we went down 35 feet & its all bog the other buildings were coming to meet in the middle so they stoped to shore up the other buildsings to carry on work. building its time to move away from the center & build 15 miles westof ch ch , oh well will see, & yes we are on shaky ground.
I wont say its easy for my friends & more so those with our differences , to understand & get through let alone live a normal life.
One detail i tell my friends a lot & no dought itll apply here is first accept your self & that does take time & then you can have acceptance from others as i v proved time & time again.
One of the things that helped me was being on our two main T V stations in N Z nation wide , cambell live & close up & other interviews for Papers & then on the net.. so the media was great as far as it goes.. Then you stand in front of a lot of people talking to them...
For me its about confindence & self worth & being who you are as a person , that is not so easy for some , try being in front of 3 millon people that takes a bit of doing so yes its a high profile & the other thing is your family they get in the spot light as well its still hard for them as well. & of cause i dought my self at times thats normal, i think..
& we do have to laugh at our selfs, hence my saying im the nut case .
we all have to work through things & some times it really is hard . yet we can get throgh it & haveing family & friends to help is really so neat.
I hope youv enjoyed haveing your 4 daughters & now more so with grandkids . Our kids are 2 boys & i girl ages are 35 34 & 33 next month for our girl oh dear 34 years of hmmmmm yes well trying at times , the idear was we kick them out at age 16 & quess what she keeped coing back funny that & of cause 8 y & 4 m ago she came back with one more ooops okay we have one very very neat grandkid who i dearly .....LOVE....& yes we have spent lots of time to gether traviling around . plus one other member wholl be 58 in may as well .yes 35 out of 37 years together hey still friends ...YES...
Family ...a... its still nice even if you have a rough time at different times during your life, still thats life. I have seen a lot of younger ones on here & even tho we have things incommon its so nise to know some of you are my age & yes we can talk about tho i know its not allways so easy & with or with out partners our familys one of the things in our community the one im very invovled with the lack is of cause many dont talkabout family as i would like to tho i do try 7 bring that out so we get to know each other im not talking about dateing or the like just it gives me more understanding in how i can work with our people .
oooops i say to much . really its just i get exited with working with people who have mental & emotional problems , iv worded it wrong , youll get the idear im a people person get to know me & youll understand , well i hope so.
One of the things i find hard is not knowing your real names , Now i do understand why some of you use another name . & more so for our women being a open forum .
Im on a lot of forums & have been for about 4 years. & have a LOT of friends & of cause we are on some of the same ones as we do contact each other quite a lot, Of cause for me i do know thier backgrounds one of those reasons is they have my trust & they allso know i will not betray thier trust, we deal with & work with many issues & problems that they have & go through with in our community . i do get to meet a lot of people so of cause im quite well known around the world , of cause they are not dating sites..
On here or this forum im very surprised at how many women are on here im just ammassed at this & so many lovely people . Of cause i dont know any one as yet . & apart form this being a dateing site,
im very humbled at being here.
I would like to point out there will be some things that come up concerning my self so youll understand more about who i am . as we go along . i have Dyslexia magor & my schooling was very poor to the point of being nil so if i do not quite get over what im trying to say youll understand why. Of cause therell be other things that come up as to my style of how i write or lack of explaining my self. in a way you understand .
Hi, Tho i like takeing pics of our Edwarding buildings the older they are the better many of our are Oamaru stone or sandstone
Tho we have lost many of ours in Ch Ch = Christchruch N Z so some may be rebuilt at this stagee not sure how many. The style is nice for me any way & i know many friends i have do like them. well its part of our history tho not much over 150 years so to lose so many is a shame.
So Another kiwi over the ditch at this rate we wont have many left tho i wont say about Ch Ch tho itll take a long few years to come right.
Wow this is one big world wide forum & its very active , iv not been on one like this so its quite different for me . The other forums im on tho quite big in the 27.000 members on one tho theres about 7.000 of us who talk a lot , Oh i forgot about the chat room , Oh well it will take me a while , Its the meet & greet thatll take me a while , Oh well back to looking . see ya,
noeleena Forum Posts (251)
Hi , a Kiwi From Waimate N Z
Hi, Kidmak .& thank you .
I do have some friends down your way & in your town best not say to much.
Any way its pretty good being here & yes im really emjoying meeting so many . be nice to have a chat some time ,
Im off to bed so see ya ,
...noeleena...