If you have found the right answer, you have already died to your ..individuality (and a bunch of other misconceptions, including whatever fear of dying you may have).
Actually, religion in the sense of these organized sects (including the one in Rome), kills all your answers and tell you a story instead.
Not sure it is easier, because if you are promised an afterlife, you'd panic by the thought of doing something your leader have told you you'd lose your afterlife by doing
Thoughts, like emotions, are sensory response. They prevent the complete inward silence which leads to this holistic observation that stupid people only once in a while experience (if lucky), by seeing someone who in a brief moment appears in the "form" of beauty.
hard to get vs easy to get
ah ok, behind your back works for me too