One of the nicest things about being single is how it's taught me to love myself. I don't feel empty if I eat alone. I don't worry about who's going to get something done around the house. I know I can take my time & be selective about a partner without going into a needy rant & ruining my friendships. I don't freak out over little stuff & hide it behind other excuses. I like my own company & I don't feel like I'm going to stop breathing just because I'm not making out with someone. If I screw up a meal(hahahahaaa) I don't have to feel bad about tossing it out & eating grilled cheese. That extra money I made last week can be used for cookies. My jeans look good tossed on my chair, even if my cat lays on them.
I can make my coffee as strong as I like, leave my bed as messy as I choose & wear a nightshirts as skimpy as I want and no one can do a bloody thing about it!
RE: Say something to someone or anyone, mentioning names is optional.
*chuckle...You are all a treat!
There have been enough poor examples of social behavior around here... but I can clearly see excellent reasons to not lose hope.