Do you know her? I mean, do you know if she's even available? Do you even know if she's into men? Seriously, these are kinda good questions to start with... think about it.
.. but good luck. I wouldn't go a traditional route, myself. I like to make a moment fun. I once gave a guy a bottle of bubbles with a little note that asked if he would like to go sit in the park, blow bubbles & be a big kid. It worked.
...I'm just say'n... you could do a little homework first.
"we accidentally told you the flooring order couldn't be filled. So sorry, we'll fill it & not charge you for the trouble of it all... and hell, here's 2g."
Don't be fooled, she may simply need a break. You'll know soon enough.
When my beloved blender ginger (mottled) had hers, she thought it best to take a 20 min break. Had me worried for a spell, she did. All was well in the end.
I've never been one to chase. Simply put, the kind of men I prefer don't require me to hunt them down & drag them back to my cave.
As for when someone is attempting to gain my interests, I like to see normal interaction. If you can not speak to/with me like a human or a friend, I see no reason to continue.
Yes... but that's me. If I tell some one that I'm not interested, they really should take it to heart. I do my best to be kind in my wording, but it's not a challenge to do else wise.
No. A little goes a long way. If you already have something brewing, then playful stalking(- key word"playful") is tolerable.
I will, however, read anything they have posted. I've seen people post lies, simply to get someone to talk to them... drop into an active thread & post one emot(tacky!) over & over again... or stalk an uninterested person to the point of annoyance. These are things you want to know about. It keeps one from having to hide a body later.
The key word here is "repeatedly". Do you have an open dialog with said person? If you are talking, then a few notes/flowers are fun. If you're not getting the response you want, for gawdsakes, don't be a pest!
If I send a note & nothing comes back, it's time to move on.
For me, if I have to send a nasty response... then you're an idiot & should be flogged with dry branches. I will make a point of avoiding having to go to that point... but don't push it. A stalker in the making will insist on an immediate response, fill the mail box up with argumentative letters before you even have a chance to read the first one & then run to the forums to rouse support from others when they don't get their way. These are the people who should be glad they don't know me in person. When manners are left to the way side & selfishness becomes the backbone of action, the person is given a solid chewing out & blocked.
Some will like it short & some will like it long... point is, are you trying to satisfy all the people around you or yourself? If you like the way you look, they do what you want with your hair.
spiceygamble Forum Posts (4,493)
RE: in need of some opinions
*ummm... just a really good question.Do you know her? I mean, do you know if she's even available?
Do you even know if she's into men?
Seriously, these are kinda good questions to start with... think about it.
.. but good luck. I wouldn't go a traditional route, myself. I like to make a moment fun. I once gave a guy a bottle of bubbles with a little note that asked if he would like to go sit in the park, blow bubbles & be a big kid.
It worked.
...I'm just say'n... you could do a little homework first.