Yep, Her name was Dale, I was in grade school and she walked up to me, said I like you, and gave me a big one right on the lips! My hair stood up, my face turned red and I felt like I was on cloud nine!!
Go into it without any expectations and see how it turns out. Worrying about how you look will just give a negative impression so relax and let whatever happens happen and most of all be your self..
Oh and my statement about the media getting you all worked up is because there are places in the world today, where the death toll is 10 fold what it is in Iraq, but nobody's even talking about it or seems to care about, because it just doesn't get any publicity. And that kind of upsets me
Oh don't get me wrong. I'm not condoning war in any way.. but I do believe that people eventually being packed together like a can of sardines will cause a bigger war than we've ever seen in our history.
My basic thought was how to stop this from happening, and still be compassionate..
Many people don't get along with each other, neighbors are warring, cities are warring, individuals are warring, it's not just the country's. I even see people on this forum that would love to pull each other's hair out lol
Do we need some kind of leader that will force us to to ignore our compassion's? So we can live in "peace" with each other. I myself think not.. Greed and believing your way is the best way is a part of human nature sadly. That's why I say war is inevitable..
Ok.. first I would like to say that I am a compassionate person but I turned it off for a moment just to give some cold hard facts and ask some questions..
War is inevitable.. People do it and even animals do it.. Sorry to say it's in our blood and it always will be..
12,617 from 20th March 2005 to 1st March 2006 died in the Iraq war.. 40,000 people died in the same time period from snake bites. Am I saying to kill snakes? NO. Just showing you how the media gets you all worked up.
Fact is over population is the biggest killer in the world... considering that.. Is helping people in areas that can't sustain the population in that area really helping or in the long run really cruel? maybe we got it all backward, who knows.
Consider this.. The worlds population was growing a an unsustainable rate before there were doctors, foreign help, and the average life span was 25.
So my question is. Should we really be working on way's to sustain life or ways to let people have a more respectable death?
As I once heard from what I thought was a heartless statement.. The only people that are hurt when someone is gone are the people they left behind.. Could it be that wanting someone in pain not to die being greedy?
Ok I turned my compassion back on now and it may be wrong but I am for saving life...
Who cares.. Have fun while it lasts and if it turns out good, all the better. And if it doesn't, cherish the time it lasted. Looking to deep into things can ruin them before they start.
Well here it goes again.. From what I'm reading, when a man is doing something nice, or showing compassion, he is in touch with his feminine side lol. Just something else they don't want to give us credit for lmao
Well if she just lays there like a slab of concrete I'll just get up and say it's a bit too cold in here for me. You can call me back when the heaters been fixed.
The cold hard fact is If someone (purposely) hurts you. They don't love you, they may even think they love you, but if they really did they would restrain from doing things they know will break your heart.
Now on the other hand, if you really love them, you probably won't want to lose them, so you let yourself be trampled on, which in turn, leads the person who is hurting you to believe you are a pushover and will continuously trample on your feelings.
I have been guilty of allowing myself to be trampled on in the past, as I'm sure many others have been too, but in time reality sets in and you will realize a one-sided love affair just isn't going to work and as much as you don't want to lose that person. You realize it's time to move on..
I remember back in College, we snuck in the girls room, rolled out the toilet paper, sprinkled some itching powder along it and rolled it back up..
Later that day many of the women were doin what men usually do and women complain about lol But the funny thing is, I think more guys got laid that night then in the entire history of the College.. LMAO
RE: I've learned...........
Guess I've been living in Europe to long lol