bubblywan Forum Posts (435)

RE: Women in general are gold digggers

Oh dear Mulberry, sounds like you have met some wrong uns!! and are hurting quite badly.
The problem is, if you have had a good standard of living or if you have a good job yourself then it would be difficult .. not impossible, but difficult to get hooked up with someone who wasnt working and couldnt maintain that standard.
However, if that person had ambition and drive and you recognised that and together you could build up a decent standard of living then that wouldnt be so difficult to go along with.
Lots of women find powerful men attractive and that kind of power comes with money but its not always the money that is the attractive bit, its the confidence that these men ooze which has got them the good position in the first place.
We are a complicated species us women I have to admit.

RE: IF WE ARE ALL HERE FOR THE SAME REASON WHY CAN,T WE MEET SOMEONE

I dont think its true that most men on here are players or that most women on here are money grabbers.. although the site sure has its fair share of both of the above!
Why do people seem to get all bent out of shape when they have been IM'ing someone and then they dont " click" when they meet in person...you go through the process.. if it works it works and if it doesnt then surely you would just move on... why take it personal. What idiot would fall in love and make commitments to someone they had only spoken to online and never met in person. Meeting Mr or Mrs Right on these sites must be like winning the lottery.... somebody has to .. you got to be in it to win it!! So, Kindatheart... dont take it all to heart, enjoy the forums and let your personality shine through and who knows... you may just get the 6 numbers up.

RE: why are'nt there more artistic or creative people on the forums of connectingsingles ?

Probably cos they have got lives
I'm creative.. I paint in watercolours ..... and I have just created a fantastic lunch for my visiting family

RE: if you could have a love child for a celebrity what celebrity you choose ? and why ?

Hi Gilly ... glad you got that silver paper off your head
Well, I heard that Peter Andre is going spare and I do like Mediterraneans .... yes ok, in my dreams.. I know

RE: london

Wander along Victoria Street towards the houses of Parliament and turn into Palace Street.. there are a couple of really nice pubs along Palace Street .. one of them is called the Phoenix and the other one is a tiny tiny pub but I cant remember the name of it... lots of lovely pubs in those streets off Buckingham Palace Road - find Petty France near to the home office and there is a pub called the Buckingham Arms which is a nice friendly pub too.

RE: ZZZZZZZZZZZZZ....

Crikey!! I know I have been gone a while but ... did Aliens come down and scoop everyone up or are they all away on one of Chriss's get togethers

RE: ????????

Another vote for Chris - he's a good guy who never has a bad word to say about anyone and has given lots of good advice and cheered many people up on this site - he is top

RE: ????????

Glad you are ok Jim - and great that you have met someone - my daughter in law is Irish and one of the sweetest girls I could have hoped for for my son - keep doing well hun and nice talking to you.

RE: ????????

Maybe you need to ask them outright if they are married before you bother to get into long conversations with them.

Hiya Jim - long time no see - where are you these days - are you back home?? Cant remember now where you were? Was it Iraq? Glad to see you are safe and well anyhow.

RE: i am ready in life to settle down and is there a woman out there for me !!!!

Hi Ant - I'm sure there is hun you just got to kiss a lot of frogs on the way
seeing as you are into Star wars etc., are there not any forums you can look for that specialise in this interest - at least then you would have something in common from the start?

RE: Confused....

Hiya Clare - you are very young to be worrying about stuff like this. It takes people different lengths of time to get over relationships and a year in anyone's book isnt very long when you have lived together. You say a lot happened that we wouldnt believe - well you need to focus on those things and make yourself fall out of love with this guy and then move on. Sounds like you moved into a new relationship a bit too soon - but - if he loves you then you need to give yourself a chance - tell him the truth about how you feel - and if he stays around then he does care about you. I believe honesty is always the best policy and not to play with people's feelings and he deserves to know how you feel but also you need to relax a bit and stop putting pressure on yourself - get over the first one - remember why you broke up - enjoy being with friends and enjoy the time with your new guy and see how things pan out. Good luck hun

RE: WHY SHOULD ANYBODY SPEND THE REST OF THEIR LIFE WITH YOU ?..WHAT ARE YOU LIKE IN BED ?..AND TO SPEND

Hello Stranger - hope you are well.

Well, because I am loyal, and funny and I am very easy going and just generally nice

RE: do men ever grow up

Good job we know you are only joking you naughty scouse git

I bet you do the " I'm just a boy at heart" bit really well Mickey but I bet there is another side where you are protective and considerte - all the things you dont want us to see on here -

Men in general never grow up and in some men thats a nice trait I think - so long as they know when they are needed to be strong and stop fooling around

RE: Please can somone tell me what this guy is thinking

Hell, he's from New Jersey!! Even Tony Soprano isnt that chauvenistic - maybe we could get the boys to go pay him a visit and put him straight

RE: Good Evening Everyone And All

nice name! sort of rolls off the tongue like Sarspirella
anyhow - hello

RE: Please can somone tell me what this guy is thinking

Dont want to upset any of my friends across the pond - this really was a JOKE - I have three American nieces so I wouldnt be that rude - I even laugh when Scouser makes jokes of Mancunians

RE: Please can somone tell me what this guy is thinking

Hi Chris - just been trying to work out on how many things he would count me out on .... anyhow luckily I'm definitely a no goer

RE: Please can somone tell me what this guy is thinking

Hi Bubbles glad I made you laugh.
I had to laugh reading it cos he cant be for real surely?? But then again - maybe he is I wonder what State in the US he is from - probably one where they marry their sisters - cos they can!!!

RE: Please can somone tell me what this guy is thinking

I wish my freakin ex husband would stop sending out these messages

RE: Do you think Love on the net, is being unfathful when you are in love with some.

You cant be in love with someone you havnt had contact with surely??
Its ok to talk to other people - just depends on what you talk about

RE: Shaving!!

You do have some funny thoughts at 4 in the morning Robbie

RE: A near miss

Hey Robbie - similar - I had just left a parking bay next to Harrods when the bomb went off there, and I was on the island of Bintan when I could have been on Bali, when that happened and I usedto travel through Kings Cross at the same time that tradgedy happened and could easily have been on that train.
Dont stand too close to me you guys - I could well have been an by now.

RE: A near miss

Glad you are ok Chriss - cant even think about what could have happened - makes me shiver

are you sure it wasnt a woman you have upset

RE: looking.

I have often wondered about that myself. One person in particular looks at mine regularly and has NEVER spoken to me in the forums or mailed me, Oh well, if it makes him happy who am I to complain

RE: what about the new chat room on here

guess your right Clara - but my little brain gets tired at this time of night and I cant keep up - I have the same problem on the Intnl forum - it moves too quickly for me - I'm just a bimbo really

RE: Need to start somewhere

Hi Everyone And Hello Phil - hope you enjoy your time on CS - yss they are a friendly bunch - even when you go missing for a while its nice to come back

RE: what about the new chat room on here

I wonder what it is about chat rooms. On the forums we all have loads to say and can message like crazy but when you get in the chat room you sort of lose your voice -

RE: IS THERE ANYONE FROM(or around)MANCHESTER?

Me Me Me

RE: why are men so hard to trust!

Hey, you get what life deals you - but the secret is to know when its not working and get the heck out pretty quick - quicker and less painful.

And I agree, you have to learn to trust - I also have been hurt but I'm not bitter - its life, you learn from it and move on.

RE: why are men so hard to trust!

Funny old question really. No different than women? Trust or lack of it is the same both ways round surely?
I work in a big office and I know men who are cheating and I know an equal amount of women who are cheating.
Have never understood why people stay in a relationship if they feel the need to cheat - why not just cut loose.
BUT - the sad thing is that people who have been cheated on, usually take that mistrust into the next relationship and the next and the next and so on...
If your sensible you will give trust but once you know for sure then kick them to the kerb pretty quickly.

I dont think though that we can say this is a male thing - I have watched some women in action when they are going after their prey and believe me - there is no such thing as sisterhood!