I was in a bad relationship for a long time. It has been hard for me to believe in myself again. I am also a very shy. It is not easy for me to just let my heart go, because I don't know if I would recognize "the one".
I have seen it to often, the children of one spouse or another treated differently. Expecially, if they have one together. In my opinion, no one should come first. It is all about the ability to share and make the best family you can, with what you have.
RE: " GET IT OFF YOUR CHEST,WHAT BUGS YOU ABOUT PEOPLE?"
I can't stand know-it-alls.