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Only one week until I meet him! And I am experiencing emotions like crazy!

Thanks, you always have the sweetest words.

Only one week until I meet him! And I am experiencing emotions like crazy!

Muchas gracias Luis.....si esto no funciona, I'll come back and pat your baby buns, lol....just kidding!

Only one week until I meet him! And I am experiencing emotions like crazy!

My gentleman will be arriving from France next week, and I am happy, excited, confused, many thoughts going through my mind, but it all feels great....

I will give you guys an update on how it's going once he is here.

I'll have to send CS, a picture of a great connection.


.... Angel....

RE: Do you like someone on CS but havent told them??? Why???

Well, I did like somebody here a whole lot, but the hunk, only wants to find someone in his state......sooooo....my friend fell inlove with me, and an engagement is comming up.....


..... Angel....

RE: hmmmm

Welcome....

RE: Ok where are the real women at

Hello...there's plenty of real women here, but out of curiosity, I just read your profile...you say you want a lady that keeps you out of trouble...would you care to open explain on that some?
You sound like a challenge Mr Handsome.

RE: Children of Divorced Parents

whoops correction...re-enforces ...this is what happens when I get interrupted with the messenger, bad spelling, lol.

RE: Children of Divorced Parents

Talking to the girls in a gentle positive way re-engorces what wikked is trying to project to the girls...the father does not have to be mention, as this would be only a conversation of good reminders and well intentions, and not specifically directed to the father, but to the girls own ability to recgnized what is best, without being caught in the middle...and not having to lean to one side or the other...just keeping a reminder of their values...nothing else.

RE: Children of Divorced Parents

Hi Wikked,

I can relate to what you are saying, My son is now 18 yrs old, and his dad was never there emoptionally for him, but was the one to provide all the fun, especially all the fun things I could not buy him like a new game system every 6 months.

I always made sure that the values I instilled in my son were re-enforced all the time, by me only, since his father lack all the skills in parenting.

My son learn what was right and wrong, respected me, and understands what I say and mean, but in a way, I "lost out" my son has refused to do anything fun with me for years, but will go right ahead, and do something "fun" with his dad.

I find that I lost my son to him in that side, but I am grateful that all his morals have come and remain because of me.

I can only suggest talking to your girls every time before they visit their dad, and reminding them of your ideals in decipline, and values, you are an intelligent woman, and I am sure that the girls will really understand what you mean.

And just adding this little bit, which I am sure, that you probably already do, always speak positive about their father, unless he is a danger to you, then thats when some facts have to be brought in.

To my son, I always spoke positive about his dad,
but with my daughter, I have to tell her how much her dad loves her and is a great dad, but also, why mom and that can not be close to each other, because he is a danger to me, to my life, as little as she is, she has come to understand this, and accept that mom and dad can not be visiting each other, but knows she is greatly love by both parents and is safe with him...but I am not.

There are many situations that we come across as divorce parents, the fun part will be minor compare to other things he can say and do...but you have spoken well about him before, and that is a good indication, he may just start to agree with you and not try to out do you in when he has contact with them.

I hope this help...many blessings to you.

Angel

RE: Speaking of Jobs-- what is yours

Mental health counselor-for the behavioral challenge children.

RE: I'm not Jean-nie...

Lizette Marilys....pronounced....Liz-sette and NO one calls me that!

I am just an... Angel... to my friends, lol...... .....

RE: So what does it take to get your attention this late?

Mech alicious.....YUM....The Panther can't say what is on her mind...but close your eyes and think....my claws are on your chest, lol...love you too.... ....

RE: single mom;s need love to

informed

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RE: Bum Touching...

I knew you got part of it, lol...I just gave it a little clarification, lol...

RE: single mom;s need love to

Yes let this be public speaking....lol.... because this is one of Angels very ignorant moments!
I have no idea what any of Ron's alphabetical letters meant...this is a moment of stuck in stupidity.....

RE: Bum Touching...

You are welcome....

RE: Bum Touching...

...lets pat you down like a baby's bottom....

RE: Bum Touching...

Thank you guys...and Ron...lol...I said I have other curves that are more exciting to touch!

It nice to see every one having a great night....y a quien de estos hombres, les gusta que lo toquen tambien?....

RE: Bum Touching...

I say...tocame...pero solo en privado...tengo muchas curvas mas exitante....get a translator, lol...


.... Angel....

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

Thank you for your kindness...I appreciate every single prayer that is said for my little one.


.... Angel....

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

thanks...great to see you too...have a wonderful night.

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

Ahhh, that is nice to hear...that is why I believe in angels and prayers.

I have been in a bad financial situation, because I have to be there for Sarah daily....but this morning, God sent me an angel...and my financial burden was lifted, miracles happen daily.

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

Thanks....... after being in the hospital for so long, I actually became "normal" for a few days and went to sleep early like other people, lol.

I have read all the prayers to Sarah from here, this truly made her happy in her spirit.

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

Thanks...nice to see you too, and yes it feels great to see her back to being with other children and learning.

RE: So what does it take to get your attention this late?

I am sleepless in MA...and since the Panther has stop her flirting...I can't go ahead and attack my lion in the jungle.


Cheers Lion King


BC...smooch, Panther...

I would like to ask my friends here for a prayer

My little Sarah has made a 90% percent improvement and has started attending school every day...something she was unable to do except for only 5 days last month.

She started school last week and is easily cathing up with her classmates.

She is smiling once again...every day!

Thank you all once more for all your wonderful prayers when I needed them the most.

Many blessings to all and have a wonderful day.

...... Angel....

The Panther needs advice, I am going crazy...

I don't know, I guess I could be messing up a good thing, if I keep feeling like this, but I only feel like this because I have kids.

I want to trust mankind, I want to trust love, and I want to believe.

And he makes everything, the way it should be, with kindness, and trust, he wants to treat me the way I want to be treated.

Why does trust and love have to be so hard when one wants to protect one's children, to make sure that the one I let in my life will be right for them...he is so willing to come into our lives, and here I am standing like a guard to my life, and my childrens.

it is so confusing right now, because I feel he is a good man, the right man, they say love is unconditional, but I say it is not, not when taking a big chance with the kids in it.

Just one more of the reason I have remain single all these years.

Thanks Lori, Tumpa...and good night, I be back again soon, maybe then I will have a definite answer to much of a French connection I have.

Sweet dreams everybody...chat soon. .....

The Panther needs advice, I am going crazy...

I agree Lori, that would make it so easy, but I will not have much time with him at all, I have to work part time, plus I have all the medical appointments, and meetings.

I never leave Sarah with a sitter ever, so that would take the evenings away from me being with him.

I think maybe I should cancel the whole thing off.

The Panther needs advice, I am going crazy...

Yes he is talking marriage, we chat everyday twice a day and also talk on the phone all the time, for three months now.

I will not be his green card to the US, immigration will give him that right due to his professional field, so he can earn his way in on his own.....that is one thing I can definitley trust.

The Panther needs advice, I am going crazy...

I have his cell numbers, home address to both homes..work relationship info...his daughters name, his birthdate...but the idea that I cannot access this info(criminal background check) like I would like to, or even if I had it, it is comming from an international site, I am not trusting about it at all.