You have Aspergers. A none verbal body language disorder [thus you will never understand women, no matter how hard you try! So don't waste your life on that.] Look at ways and means to legally make a lot of money before you reach age 25.
Travel the world, have fun, don't take life too seriously. Don't be complacent. Don't suffer fools gladly. Invest in your own home. Take out a private pension. Don't drop out [of society]. Believe in yourself.
Are you serious!? Do you honestly believe that any woman who was a millionmire would be a member on CS let alone 'interested' in such a shallow proposal from someone who sounds like a 419'er? Cold shower!
Don't take what other members say 'to heart'. Try to bear in mind that when you post on an open forum, it is like walking into Dodge or the O.K.Corral. Holsters on hips and the quick draw!
I have a suitcase full of Eau de Toilettes. Indeed I spent £108.00 yeasterday on 2 bottles of EDT, £48.00 FOR 300ml of Marc Jacobs Curaco, and £60.50 for 100 ml of Faranheit Absolute (Faranheit Intense). I love to smell nice. Hear that girls?! Read my profile!
NOT TRUE! For me the sad fact is, that you live in America, and I in England. Secondly, I don't have a passport, and thirdly I cannot afford to travel. Fourth, I cannot drive and don't have a car, fifth I too am disabled and have experienced similar issues.
To be frank, I don't think this is the site for either of us. People here seem consumed with the desire to find a suitable able bodied financially secure 'lifestyle partner' dressed up in the misleading self delusional guise of 'true love'.
Some members don't appear to have realised that true love does'nt necessarily bring financial nor material security along with it, and that what they claim to be seeking may not be available or a price, which they may not be willing to accept.
However, I would welcome you as a friend if you wish to consider that? See my profile.
Never. Been on this site since April or thereabouts. My opinion is, that if you are happy with who you are, would like to meet someone with an open mind, and advertise yourself 'honestly' as I did: disabled, large, bald, 55, and out of work (but solvent) your chances of meeting such a person in England (or anywhere else for that matter) are equivalent to a big fat zero!
Which enables me to sympathise with those men and women who feel that omittance is better than a straight lie, or who (not having a degree in Spin Doctoring) have resorted to a lie (shame upon those hypocrites who claim 'they' don't and who are quick to criticise others). I don't endorse lying as a rule, but on this site I can understand it.
Furthermore, according to one of the polls I read in the Forums, men and women of all ages seem to be hunting for both 'love' and 'money'. I think that exposure puts paid to those of us who are out of work. Although I am not such a fatalist/pessemist as to believe that this applies to everybody of course, although
I must admit that was a revelation and came as quite a nasty shock.
True love surely means 'just that'? It doesn't necessarily come wrapped up in any kind of a package, neither material and/or financial. And what would happen if 'true love' happened to those who appear to expect (or who hope for or aspire to) financial security in a prospective partner. What would be the outcome of their search if the other had no material wealth, comparitive or excessive income, and an incompatible lifestyle?
Is that what it's really all about .. 'lifestyle'? If so, then its not 'true love' which is being sought, it's something else entirely!
If you have had the opportunity to actually chat with someone on CS then you are either very lucky or exceptionally gifted. Most people I have encountered on line were not capable of conducting a conversation, let alone one in good English and , of the one or two who tried/try to communicate, they were worth far more in my estimation than those who are reaaly seeking a compatible 'lifestyle partner whose income and assets are comparitive witheir own or, greater.
One lie does not in my opinion make a person 'dishonest'. It is the context in which the lie was told which is the important factor. Your loss .. to walk away because you cannot stop yourself from applying negative stereotypes, is the tragedy here.
"What is the/their 'game' and, why must this be played?" Surely the wise course would be not to play or, invent something new that can be played by everybody without there being 'winners' or 'losers'.
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RE: I wish that i knew then what i know now?
You have Aspergers. A none verbal body language disorder [thus you will never understand women, no matter how hard you try! So don't waste your life on that.] Look at ways and means to legally make a lot of money before you reach age 25.Travel the world, have fun, don't take life too seriously. Don't be complacent. Don't suffer fools gladly. Invest in your own home. Take out a private pension. Don't drop out [of society]. Believe in yourself.