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RE: Question "morality"????????

Happy New Year Pat!

I´m not too old, but I don´t really like the ever increasing number of single mothers. I wouldn´t go so far as to say it´s immoral, just not a lifestyle choice I would have made, nor would wish my kids to make.

Before I get a bashing sigh I do realise there are single mothers who have had husbands or long term live in partners, this is completely different. I´m thinking more about young women who think nothing of having children, sometimes by different men. It´s irresponsible in my opinion.

RE: Movie review

Hi Elley. I´m going to the cinema tonight, but I don´t think I´d enjoy Avatar, despite your positive review overall.

I´m thinking about watching a Spanish movie, Celda 211, it´s had some very good reviews.

wave

RE: "I love you" - past and present...

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Bullshitting with style!

Such romance, but I´m sure if Romeo and Juliet had lived, it
wouldn´t have been too long before she was shouting at him....

"Thou degenerate guts-griping tyrant"
William Shakespeare

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RE: HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010...:)

Feliz año a todos. wine

RE: Ever did this once?

rolling on the floor laughing

You´re quite amusing, but you need to grow up a little.

And, you appear to make too many wild assumptions about people.

comfort comfort

RE: Ever did this once?

I don´t understand why anybody would want to, or indeed be able to, have sex with somebody who disgusted them. dunno

RE: Do you visit Dating Sites to find a (for Women Only)

Isn´t it clearly stated on profile options what people are looking for? confused

I´m not sure what you are expecting to discover from your poll.

RE: Turning a new leaf !!!!!

I was reading some old threads earlier, some of which you had posted in, and then I noticed this thread.

I wasn´t a member of your fan club then, as you know wink, and
I´m still not because I think you are simply playing games. Nobody can change so radically, unless of course they forget to take their medication. laugh

Good luck though if you really are trying to control your macho personality. cheers

RE: Just date 'em already...

Sounds to me like she simply wasn´t interested in you and used that expression as an excuse.

Come to think of it, I don´t know anybody who says that. Why would people wait to date? It´s not the same as prolonging a big decision about moving in with someone, or getting engaged, which I can understand.

It makes no sense, unless they really aren´t into someone and want to let them down lightly.

RE: light hearted fun

You boys are loving this thread aren´t you. scold

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

I'm sorry about your illness, yet I am at a loss, in the light of this in particular, why you should be so blinkered in your views about this specific case.

As for the comments you make about the Government, if you are talking about the British Government, you are quite wrong. They have publicly denounced the execution and have not yet let it rest.

I do not wish to argue with you about the varying degrees of mental illness, nor whether one suffering from such is able to fully comprehend whether they should take their medication and the consequences if they don't.

Most people I know have serious misgivings about Chinese politics and how it affects the way of life for people living there. It has been compared to life in Spain under Franco, or any dictatorship for that matter, when people are unable to hold get togethers or have visitors without the fear of a heavy knock on the door, or even worse. I also doubt that many people would condone the number of executions there have been in China or the methods adopted.

But then, I am always shocked, when I read here on CS, people writing about how they would be happy to "pull the trigger" themselves, so what do I know as a small dissenting voice in the crowd of would be executioners. dunno

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

I think yo may be pre-judging without any real understanding of mental ill health.

I do not profess to be an expert either, but from what I have read and heard whilst here in the UK for Christmas, this man may have been bipolar, which induces manic and uncontrollable behaviour if not treated, His family believe he has not been medically treated for some time.

I do not believe real mental illness can or should ever be equated to "stupidity" as you say. The problem in this particular case was that the man was not allowed a medical assessment before he was executed, despite the pleas made.....that is a crime.

RE: Malta

But she didn't move to Malta, she lives in Spain.

As for your theory about height, well for goodness sake, we are so integrated now, tall, short, medium height men, or women, can be found anywhere in the world.

All I can say to the OP is get out of the Little Britain communities, make friends with the Spanish, learn the language, etc etc....your options will increase, and you will meet great people who do not live their lives eating English breakfasts, going down the pub...English pub of course....afternoon and evening, night after night.

I have, after living here for five years, but maybe it's been easier for me living away from the ex-pat enclaves. I never come across any other English person here, and that suits me, because it means I've been able to integrate fully. Many of the ex-pats living in Spain, on the coast in particular, have a variety of problems in one way or another, I see this because I personally know a few, and from others I've met here on CS in the past. Not a road I would want to go down! I suspect it would be similar in Malta if you choose to mix with the many ex-pats there.

Good luck.

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

Well, I have travelled extensively in my work and I abide by the rules and customs of every country I live in. However, I am sane, and certainly not into drug smuggling nor any other illicit behaviour.

As for this particular man, I have heard his daughter speak on the BBC, and it was clear that his family had no idea of what he has been doing for some time, and his few emails were undoubtedly written. as confirmed by mental health specialists, by an emotionally unstable man. This man apparently was a successful businessman in his early life, but has been living outside the UK for some time and his family had not been an integral part of his life, as happens so often with people who have mental problems.

I have lived and worked in Russia, as you mention, for some time, and of course I realise the laws there, and in other countries I've worked in, but then, as I've already said, I am perfectly sound of mind.

Things are not always so cut and dried.

RE: The correct method of gun control...

Pat, all I can say is sigh

Tongue in cheek on your part though???

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

No I don't...in reply to the thread question, but then I am anti capital punishment for any crime, and I'm not going to argue now about the whys and wherefores here.

As for the particular case which has been brought up here, I am absolutely appalled that this man has been executed, and I sincerely hope the British Government pays more than the "slap on the wrist" lip service it has made so far.

As for those of you who bang on about how people should know and realise their fate when they do such things in certain countries, well that's all well and good, but not as simplistic as that. Many of these people often, in my opinion, do not truly realise the consequences of their actions, and believe they will be treated in accordance with Western law if the worst comes to the worst.

This particular man was, as far as we know, mentally ill....how many 53 year old mentally stable men would believe they could have a successful pop career in China)...or anywhere for that matter.

I am absolutely disgusted about this particular case, regardless of all the comments made in this thread about drug smuggling.

RE: New EMOS

laugh laugh I can just picture you dancing in the snow!

I prefer little tinkerbell, she is adorable. angel2

This one is good too when there is a pack attack on a poster as happens so often.......choir

RE: What is the most popular sport in the world?

As an ex hockey player I go along with the support here, but it is without a doubt football which is the most popular sport on a world wide level.

The best team in the world is of course Liverpool FC!

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RE: Do girls gotta doeverything far better than boys just to stay equal?

That´s an interesting comment. However, is it also because you think a female has a more caring approach than a man? If so then that could demonstrate the still strong stereotype many have of who the "carers" in society should be.

I too chose a female doctor when I moved to Spain so I´m not criticising.

RE: Kiss at first date? Even more

Well there´s nothing wrong with a kiss. I kiss people every day, living in Spain it´s normal!

Go with the flow, and what is mutually acceptable is what I would advise for a first date.

If you´re thinking of internet dates, then the two people involved may have been communicating for months, so nobody could really criticise them for expecting more than just a kiss!

RE: a rain woman condacting social experiments on CS

I too supported you in your original thread, and received some flack for doing so, though that´s just water off a duck´s back for me, so no problem. As for your statement in this thread..."you know the rules better"..that´s simply not true, don´t let others dictate how you choose to live your life as an adult woman.

I think you are taking the criticism you received to heart far too much. If you remember, more people applauded you for being refreshingly honest than those who resorted to name calling and negative comments.

Go on and live your life as you choose, nobody here is qualified to say what is right or wrong in this respect, however much they may think they are. Just be careful, as I said on your original thread, and select the men who profess to be like-minded wisely.

Some people here like to play the morals card when it suits. If you take a look at the same people in the more sexually explicit threads, or what they have also confessed in the past, they really do seem to contradict themselves.

Ignore them. hug

RE: is being attracted to someone important or am I just being too shallow.

Yep, we´re all just too picky! laugh

RE: What is it About Christmas that So Often, Distasters Strike??

Sorry to hear about your cracked rib, and you do seem to have some bad luck during this time of year.

I think a few people have already said that we seem to be more aware of misfortune during the Christmas and New Year period, and I agree with that. It just seems so much worse and sadder to hear about illness or death when everybody else is celebrating, despite the fact that it´s an everyday occurrence in reality.

As for the break-ups you mentioned, yes that´s true too, but don´t you think it´s often due to holiday stress causing that "final straw?".

I can´t say I´ve ever experienced anything bad at this time of year....touch wood! Although I´m not too happy about Javi (my partner) being in Madrid, and not being able to see me off when I go to the UK for Christmas in a couple of days! I´ll see him in the New Year though, and I´m looking forward to spending Christmas with my son and daughter, and the rest of the family.

Anyway, you´re lucky to have Dave to look after you. I hope you feel better soon. hug

RE: Big boobs or

That pic can´t be real.....can it????

RE: NO APOLOGY

Oh Robert really!

Please don´t try to put the blame on me for your behaviour, or your constant attention seeking threads and posts, particularly when a few CS women have criticised or opposed you during the last few days, and your responses to them were extremely (c)rude.



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wave Back at you.

RE: is being attracted to someone important or am I just being too shallow.

laugh True, but you´re talking about sex drive, not real attraction.

What happens when they both get rescued and become famous for being stranded so long on that desert island?. The young, slim, beauties flock around the now rich and famous man.

Will he not be tempted? laugh

RE: Should we have mail order brides and grooms?

Aren´t there many similarities between mail order and dating site partners. dunno

Mail order just sounds more derogatory and is less morally acceptable by many.

RE: 1,000 euros/ 1,450 US dollars.........

Strange how you've managed to upset so many women here in CS - and even caused friction in the personal relationships between a couple.

You're not that holy a person yourself and have often posted in the past how you didn't understand why or how you upset people.

I believe, in your heart, that you do know..because you come across all the time as 'holier than thou'.

You live in lala land. I haven´t upset "so many women here" nor "caused friction" between any couple. You need to get your facts right, you´re way behind the jungle drums.

I´m far from "holier than though" too, but I see right through you, along with many others, and you just don´t like that do you, particularly when it comes from a woman.

But carry on insulting all of us by making up things about what we have supposedly done in that wild imagination of yours
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My post got mixed up with yours, the highlighted text is mine.

RE: 1,000 euros/ 1,450 US dollars.........

Strange how you've managed to upset so many women here in CS - and even caused friction in the personal relationships between a couple.

You're not that holy a person yourself and have often posted in the past how you didn't understand why or how you upset people.

I believe, in your heart, that you do know..because you come across all the time as 'holier than thou'.

You live in lala land. I haven´t upset "so many women here" nor "caused friction" between any couple. You need to get your facts right, you´re way behind the jungle drums.

I´m far from "holier than though" too, but I see right through you, along with many others, and you just don´t like that do you, particularly when it comes from a woman.

But carry on insulting all of us by making up things about what we have supposedly done in that wild imagination of yours.

RE: 1,000 euros/ 1,450 US dollars.........

This is one of the most odious threads I´ve ever seen here, and I agree with both you and ghost. Many people here I´m sure go about their daily business, and find time, or provide financial aid, to help those in need without the need to advertise the fact in such a way.

Robert, you do nothing but boast about your money and women, then when you realise you´ve gone too far or sobered up you beg for pity with posts about your "boredom" and depression.

What do I know though? I´m just one of the women here you like to insult when the opportunity arises, simply because I oppose many of your threads and posts.

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