Jan1305 Forum Posts (5,319)

RE: HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010...:)

Feliz año a todos.

RE: Just date 'em already...

Sounds to me like she simply wasn´t interested in you and used that expression as an excuse.

Come to think of it, I don´t know anybody who says that. Why would people wait to date? It´s not the same as prolonging a big decision about moving in with someone, or getting engaged, which I can understand.

It makes no sense, unless they really aren´t into someone and want to let them down lightly.

RE: light hearted fun

You boys are loving this thread aren´t you.

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

I'm sorry about your illness, yet I am at a loss, in the light of this in particular, why you should be so blinkered in your views about this specific case.

As for the comments you make about the Government, if you are talking about the British Government, you are quite wrong. They have publicly denounced the execution and have not yet let it rest.

I do not wish to argue with you about the varying degrees of mental illness, nor whether one suffering from such is able to fully comprehend whether they should take their medication and the consequences if they don't.

Most people I know have serious misgivings about Chinese politics and how it affects the way of life for people living there. It has been compared to life in Spain under Franco, or any dictatorship for that matter, when people are unable to hold get togethers or have visitors without the fear of a heavy knock on the door, or even worse. I also doubt that many people would condone the number of executions there have been in China or the methods adopted.

But then, I am always shocked, when I read here on CS, people writing about how they would be happy to "pull the trigger" themselves, so what do I know as a small dissenting voice in the crowd of would be executioners.

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

I think yo may be pre-judging without any real understanding of mental ill health.

I do not profess to be an expert either, but from what I have read and heard whilst here in the UK for Christmas, this man may have been bipolar, which induces manic and uncontrollable behaviour if not treated, His family believe he has not been medically treated for some time.

I do not believe real mental illness can or should ever be equated to "stupidity" as you say. The problem in this particular case was that the man was not allowed a medical assessment before he was executed, despite the pleas made.....that is a crime.

RE: Malta

But she didn't move to Malta, she lives in Spain.

As for your theory about height, well for goodness sake, we are so integrated now, tall, short, medium height men, or women, can be found anywhere in the world.

All I can say to the OP is get out of the Little Britain communities, make friends with the Spanish, learn the language, etc etc....your options will increase, and you will meet great people who do not live their lives eating English breakfasts, going down the pub...English pub of course....afternoon and evening, night after night.

I have, after living here for five years, but maybe it's been easier for me living away from the ex-pat enclaves. I never come across any other English person here, and that suits me, because it means I've been able to integrate fully. Many of the ex-pats living in Spain, on the coast in particular, have a variety of problems in one way or another, I see this because I personally know a few, and from others I've met here on CS in the past. Not a road I would want to go down! I suspect it would be similar in Malta if you choose to mix with the many ex-pats there.

Good luck.

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

Well, I have travelled extensively in my work and I abide by the rules and customs of every country I live in. However, I am sane, and certainly not into drug smuggling nor any other illicit behaviour.

As for this particular man, I have heard his daughter speak on the BBC, and it was clear that his family had no idea of what he has been doing for some time, and his few emails were undoubtedly written. as confirmed by mental health specialists, by an emotionally unstable man. This man apparently was a successful businessman in his early life, but has been living outside the UK for some time and his family had not been an integral part of his life, as happens so often with people who have mental problems.

I have lived and worked in Russia, as you mention, for some time, and of course I realise the laws there, and in other countries I've worked in, but then, as I've already said, I am perfectly sound of mind.

Things are not always so cut and dried.

RE: The correct method of gun control...

Pat, all I can say is

Tongue in cheek on your part though???

RE: do u tink people should be excutied for smuggleing drugs?

No I don't...in reply to the thread question, but then I am anti capital punishment for any crime, and I'm not going to argue now about the whys and wherefores here.

As for the particular case which has been brought up here, I am absolutely appalled that this man has been executed, and I sincerely hope the British Government pays more than the "slap on the wrist" lip service it has made so far.

As for those of you who bang on about how people should know and realise their fate when they do such things in certain countries, well that's all well and good, but not as simplistic as that. Many of these people often, in my opinion, do not truly realise the consequences of their actions, and believe they will be treated in accordance with Western law if the worst comes to the worst.

This particular man was, as far as we know, mentally ill....how many 53 year old mentally stable men would believe they could have a successful pop career in China)...or anywhere for that matter.

I am absolutely disgusted about this particular case, regardless of all the comments made in this thread about drug smuggling.

RE: New EMOS

I can just picture you dancing in the snow!

I prefer little tinkerbell, she is adorable.

This one is good too when there is a pack attack on a poster as happens so often.......

RE: What is the most popular sport in the world?

As an ex hockey player I go along with the support here, but it is without a doubt football which is the most popular sport on a world wide level.

The best team in the world is of course Liverpool FC!

RE: Do girls gotta doeverything far better than boys just to stay equal?

That´s an interesting comment. However, is it also because you think a female has a more caring approach than a man? If so then that could demonstrate the still strong stereotype many have of who the "carers" in society should be.

I too chose a female doctor when I moved to Spain so I´m not criticising.

RE: Kiss at first date? Even more

Well there´s nothing wrong with a kiss. I kiss people every day, living in Spain it´s normal!

Go with the flow, and what is mutually acceptable is what I would advise for a first date.

If you´re thinking of internet dates, then the two people involved may have been communicating for months, so nobody could really criticise them for expecting more than just a kiss!

RE: is being attracted to someone important or am I just being too shallow.

Yep, we´re all just too picky!

RE: What is it About Christmas that So Often, Distasters Strike??

Sorry to hear about your cracked rib, and you do seem to have some bad luck during this time of year.

I think a few people have already said that we seem to be more aware of misfortune during the Christmas and New Year period, and I agree with that. It just seems so much worse and sadder to hear about illness or death when everybody else is celebrating, despite the fact that it´s an everyday occurrence in reality.

As for the break-ups you mentioned, yes that´s true too, but don´t you think it´s often due to holiday stress causing that "final straw?".

I can´t say I´ve ever experienced anything bad at this time of year....touch wood! Although I´m not too happy about Javi (my partner) being in Madrid, and not being able to see me off when I go to the UK for Christmas in a couple of days! I´ll see him in the New Year though, and I´m looking forward to spending Christmas with my son and daughter, and the rest of the family.

Anyway, you´re lucky to have Dave to look after you. I hope you feel better soon.

RE: NO APOLOGY

Oh Robert really!

Please don´t try to put the blame on me for your behaviour, or your constant attention seeking threads and posts, particularly when a few CS women have criticised or opposed you during the last few days, and your responses to them were extremely (c)rude.







Back at you.

RE: Should we have mail order brides and grooms?

Aren´t there many similarities between mail order and dating site partners.

Mail order just sounds more derogatory and is less morally acceptable by many.

RE: Which One Is The Best ....................??

I voted skype. It´s a godsend for me living in a different country from my family and old friends.

RE: Spelling

Well yes I agree, but as I said, maybe he´s been having a hard time and was really only criticising "players".

Anyway, I dealt him a "get out of jail free" card with my first post on the thread, so maybe he´ll come back

RE: Spelling

I do, believe me!

But don´t you think I had a point?

So often people jump in without thinking, and it soon becomes a pack attack. Few people have a hope in hell of surviving intact.

RE: Names of Places- use last or last two letters

Ontario

RE: Spelling

Well the poor man has already disappeared.

I may be wrong, but I don´t actually think he was criticising poor spelling, but using it in a clumsy, metaphorical way.

For example: -

If you can´t spell, buy a dictionary.
If you are hungry, eat something.
If you are cold, put on your coat.
If you join a dating site, make an effort and meet people to date.


Perhaps he´s been let down a few times by people feigning interest, only to cry off or disappear later. This has happened to many as we all know.

RE: Why do so many men not put a photo of themselves on their profile?

I used to think on similar lines, but no longer.

Of course there are people who won´t post a picture for the reason you give, but as I´ve already said, there are valid reasons too.

After being here for a considerable time now, I really don´t believe a picture is worth too much in the scheme of things. Many people here have said that they have met very attractive people from the site who had chosen not to post a picture.

You for example, have no need to impress anybody with your fine legs as you are in a happy relationship, yet you still do, and change them regularly. I do too, and I also have no need to, so I´m not sure why, as I´m not trying to impress anybody (or otherwise, if my pictures aren´t particularly liked).

It really makes no difference to me, my ratings are turned off, and I rarely look at my who´s viewed me list.

RE: Why do so many men not put a photo of themselves on their profile?

You´re right. There are also many women who don´t post a picture incidentally, so the question shouldn´t really be directed to men only.

Some people really do have valid reasons for not doing so, and I´m considering removing mine. Partly because I´m no longer interested in finding a partner here, but mostly because I´m a little worried about how easy it is for people to steal and use the photos we post for dubious reasons.

RE: On the 1st Date, who should pay?

I always go dutch, but some men won´t accept, and insist on paying.

I´m not too comfortable with that though, and prefer to pay my share.

RE: MERRY CHRISMAS.....

Thank you Robert, but I was really writing to those I consider friends.

Merry Christmas.

RE: MERRY CHRISMAS.....

New YEAR

RE: MERRY CHRISMAS.....

Merry Christmas Marti, and as I´ll be signing out soon for the Christmas and New period, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all.

RE: What would you do if.....................

Have you experienced this then?

I don´t really understand the question to be honest.

Few people would prolong such a date, and escape asap methinks.

It´s not even about making an effort for a first date is it? If someone turns up stinking to high heaven, they most likely have a permanent aversion to soap and water!

RE: xmas present

Hello "wisp o the night".

Are you practicing for the Miss World contest?