stilkidn Forum Posts (19)

RE: Would You Date Yourself

Yes, I think I would date myself...whoa...I think I already have been. And most of the time enjoying the company. I ask my self....self, what would you like to do fun today and of course I answer. We hardly ever get bored with each other, but we still get lonely.

We have went many times to the City Market, where the Arabia Museum is. And danced to the blues band that plays there on Sunday afternoons. And went to a Chinese Buffet.

RE: Would You Date Yourself

RE: Are you afraid of dying/death?

I think that's where I'm at with it at this time...will it hurt, how will it happen, will it take long?

RE: What is your favorite type of kiss?

Long... ..juicing....enticing! I really love kissing.....alot!

RE: what part of a person most appeals to you..

I would have to say personality.

But, there was one time that I was mesmerized by one guy's blue, gorgeous, but lyin' eyes.

RE: WHICH ONE IS THE BIGGER SIN..? KILLING AN ELEPHANT or Killing an ant...?

RE: How comfortable are u being single?

Thank you much Dusty! And Best Wishes for your New Year also

RE: How comfortable are u being single?

Raindog....I love my cat, but her communication skills are also somewhat limited

RE: How comfortable are u being single?

Yes! ..beanes ...its all the happy moments I miss..the laughter we had, the witty exchange of nonsenses which were part of our days..there was a lot of detail in our shared life which made it so happy. Hardley a day could go by without him having me laughing (whether I wanted to or not)and also just about everybody that he was around. He was definitely the sunshine in my life...

RE: How comfortable are u being single?

beanes............I can truthfully say I relate to what your experiencing. I was happily married for 17 years. We had even worked together for most of those years. My husband died almost 5 years ago. When I lost my best friend, partner, playmate, and lover, I think I lost a part of myself. All are friends were also married and all my family are hundreds of miles away. I am defintely not comfortable with this empty" hole in my heart" of no one special to look forward to seeing, talking to, and spending time with together ...........Billie

RE: Describe yourself using the letters of your user name

S-Silly
T-Talkitive
I-Independent
L-Lovable
K-Kind
I-Inquisitive
D-Dancer
N-Nimble

RE: What's the single most unattractive thing you see in profiles?

I would like you and/or anybody to tell me what you find to be the most unattractive thing about my profile. And I don't mean your wisecracks, and joking around stuff. I would like your serious opinon.

RE: Anyone know a good blond joke?

RE: Anyone know a good blond joke?

Love it!

RE: Wanted....husband

RE: Why post photos of younger selves?

One guy had no photo on profile and decribed himself as average body type. He either needs to wake up or get glasses or clearer mirror. I met him and he had plenty of extra pounds. Maybe he thought he was average for his age of 50. Or maybe he thought I wouldn't notice.

RE: Why post photos of younger selves?

OOP'S
I meant to direct my question to Ambrose

RE: Why post photos of younger selves?

Are you saying then, that if they don't have and up to date photo that it is better to have no photo at all and that they just try to decribe themselves?

RE: Question-why is it so hard to be honest with others

I too have found this behavior to very disheartening. Not being honest up front seems to me to just be prolonging the inevitable and also very unfair and an inconsiderate waste of time for the other person.

A singles member e-mailed me, then we chatted on IM and he wanted to meet. I said ok, let me get offline and call me and we can talk about meeting. He called, we talked for about 15-20 minutes, then he said, could I call you back? And I said well, yeah. He said he had to go to the store. I said, oh, ok, whatcha gotta get? He said dog food. I never heard back from him. I am pretty sure there was something I said that changed his mind about wanting to meet. But rather than the rude exit excuse, I would have very much respected a "well, I'm really sorry to have to tell you this, but your not really, exactly what I'm looking for at this time." Hopefully he will get treated the same by another and maybe learn something from it. The good old "Do unto others as you would have them to unto you" could have definitely been applied.