My last wife used to call me 'Robbie' but only when she was in a good mood!
I grew up in homes surrounded by servants.
I hated it.
Now I don't mind having a cleaning lady, but if I lived in a smaller place I think I'd prefer to my own cleaning; the problem is I am forgetful and normally only clean properly in the Spring - and only in the Spring and in leap years!
I have no cleaning lady in my house in the UK - once I cleaned the windows after about five years and an awful lot more daylight streamed through in!¬
That was very, very nice and is indicative of somebody with a good sense of humour and a good brain and the ability to write clearly and concisely - do you give lessons?
Yes, and she is a very nice lady who has cleaned for us for almost a decade now; since last year she took on the added responsibilty of being a carer and had a well-deserved pay rise - so now she come in as a carer for 1.5 hours and then carries on with her cleaning 'hat' for another couple of hours.
She's on duty tomorrow as a carer, but it's a public holiday so I don't want her to do any cleaning as her youngest son will be off from school; on public holidays I believe you should be spent as much as possible with your own family!
However, I sense a little unhappiness hidden among the enthusiasm.
What goal are you working towards?
Is that goal what keeps you going?
Bartending is great (I have done it a three different points in my life) but it isn't everything to make you feel fulfilled and after a couple of years it is definitely time for most of us to 'move on'.
Enjoy the bartending while you can - then move on!
I know it's just a second and part-time job and in another thread you said you needed the second income, but remember that there are only 24 hours in a day and most people only work about 8 hours and sleep about 8 hours and, unless you love your work, that eight hours that the everage person has off away from sleeping or working is what they live for!
You want something really badly you'll overcome all sorts of obstacles - when you don't want something badly you won't bother........ same goes with relationships - you either want to meet somebody or you don't............ if it's:
The majority of CS members statistically must never or hardly ever post; maybe they just email potential friends, maybe they just read posts and never contribute, maybe all sorts of things..............
rusty_knight Forum Posts (6,840)
RE: Happiness in this World - A Gosho of Joy
Great OP...... I particularly liked the first two paragraphs of the quote you used - and I KNOW that it is true!