hmm I'm not even sure I'd call my eh friend a friend we have an intense dislike of each other but eh it works in the bedroom! it works for us no emotional ties no loyalty to each other etc
I think for me whats really important also is that you can be independent of each other in life however much your committed to each other its important that people can take joy/pleasure out of other interests without there OH having to hold there had all the time
Seems you were very harsh on her in fairness it may well be that she perceived herself to be ''athletic'' its hard to rate yourself here!
I had a real struggle trying to figure out what category I should have put myself in!! I'm slim but curvy!! not a size zero but no more then a size ten though I have curves.... so eventually stuck with average! I don't know what peoples perception of me will be when we first me but hopefully not on the size of my waist or the perception of where IT should be!!
she may have been to not been to your taste but no need to be so quick with the criticism
Yes but not a natural born leader though! I've worked at developing my skills over the years ultimately getting the best out of people not always easy mind!! I love my job
I'm a tad bit confused here what are you actually trying to say?? Your annoyed because your friend didn't deliver the expectations you set out for him and he says he's knows nothing about it is this correct?
My advice to you is keep it simple posters incur cost thus did you expect him to take this responsibility of cost also why didn't you call him or e mail him asking him what he had achieved so far prior to this ''rant'' today
Organizing events like this are stressful though of course for the greater good you are expecting people to put there own time, energy into something is not easy! COMMUNICATION IS VITAL
I helped organised a fun raising day weeks of organizing the most stressful part was making sure that jobs that we assigned were done! and people tend to let you down... it was really difficult though we managed to raise just under €6000 in six hours! I did say at the time again never again!!! though damn organizing the next one soon!
Oh and another downfall when I popped into the phone provider as I did have a stupid moment with the phone they were horrible! though in fairness she got a right mouthful in return you'd swear she didn't have to learn how to use the phone herself when it came out!
RE: Do you think friends with benefits can go back to being just friends ?
hmm I'm not even sure I'd call my eh friend a friend we have an intense dislike of each other but eh it works in the bedroom! it works for us no emotional ties no loyalty to each other etc