I think you have already made that decision and you are going to take her back. The only thing I will say is, communicate more with other, and try to sit down and work out what happened the first time round, this has to be resolved before you do anything else. Good luck to you, hope it works out for you both.
Hi L4Q. I find when this subject of cheating comes up, it is nearly always the men who get the blame for it, but the way I see it is, men are not cheating on their own, they are cheating with woman, so in that case there are the same amount of men being unfaithful as there are women. Men have their faults and I would be the first to point them out. but in this case I find both are equally to blame.
Am very disappointed you don't have Irish men up there. They like to pretend they're not romantic, don't want to ruin their reputations But they can be very romantic.
Maybe they just can't resist you're good looks, or maybe it's the pink shirt. No seriously a lot of people like to put a face to the person they are talking to. I don't think it's anything to do with being shallow, I guess it just makes it easier to talk to someone.
I think players are out for all they can get, They don't have to be good looking, they know how to use the charm, and when they get what they came for, it's on to the next one, irrespective of what damage they have caused, they have no respect for other's feelings.
I think any one who has lived has secrets, nothing wrong with that, we all have a past, if some one tells me their secrets, they will never be divulged, some secrets are to protect others. I hate lies, but I guess we all do it to some extent, some times for the right reasons some times not. But none of us are perfect.
As a non gang member, I don't really care about cliques or gangs here on CS. I have not been invited to join any and if I were to be, I would have to turn it down as I don't want to part of any, I consider myself to be an individual I have my own opinions and Ideals. I am not a prolific poster, the reason being the majority of the threads don't interest me, but if I have something to say, then I will say it, and if some members agree with me that's fine, if they don't so be it, I respect others opinions and expect that respect back.
I have gone in in the afternoon for a coffee or something to eat and it's never been a problem, but do it at night and most men think you're there for the taking.
RE: My Ex wants me back
I think you have already made that decision and you are going to take her back.The only thing I will say is, communicate more with other, and try to sit down and work out what happened the first time round, this has to be resolved before you do anything else.
Good luck to you, hope it works out for you both.