Individual Characteristics are built from life experiences and observations and conditioning from people and society around us. We see things in others we like or dislike and adopt what works for us. That is why Buddist monks spend time in solitude...so as NOT to be influenced. They are taught what characteristics are required by a monk and work to develop those thoughts to a higher level. jmo
had the same thoughts but didnt know how to put it across..to me the word pairing would be..fat/skinny or curvy/slim.. Saw an interesting experiment on TV the other night...they had a curvy lady and a slim lady "accidentally" drop something on the pavement. Men generally ignored the curvy lady yet 98% of men stopped to pick up the item for the slim lady...
In all my years on CS have never seen a slim lady put up a thread on the weight issue ...maybe we are just more comfortable in our own skin without needing constant validation.
A parents heart never really lets go...but it can toughen up and sometimes needs to for children to learn to take responsibility for their own life. It worries me that the BF parents are homeless as this may mean he also learnt little responsibility from his parents. As far as the wedding goes I would say " ok here is the deal..we pay for a small intimate wedding for now and if you kids want a BIG wedding you can have that when you both can afford to pay for it.
RE: I..FOUND..MY..love
you have to admit....she is consistent...or is that persistent..