When someone isn't realistic about themselves and what they bring to the table.
I do think though, that being selective is important to find someone suitable for a relationship.
What 'one' thing would you say is 'most' important in whom you're looking for ('or' one thing you absolutely 'don't' want in whom you're looking for)?
What 'one' thing among your preferences would you say is the biggest candidate for being seen as unreasonably choosy?
It's a 2 step approach for me. First, I need to connect with someone. I like a guy that is bright, kind, engaging, witty and enjoys life.
Then getting to know this person to see if we are looking for the same thing. Similar values, relationship type and lifestyle to see where and if this could be going somewhere.
Someone on eye level with a similar attitude and preferences in life.
A photo tells a thousand words - no point in lying about your age when someone has a photo up that clearly shows someone's age.
Apart form a couple of desperate newcomers, people cop on quick enough. And then there are the long time forum users that cut down the BS quick enough.
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