no not about grief Serene about intentions and responsibility...
the cheatee cannot assume responsibility for the intentions of the cheater, however, mulling it over my head for most of the day... as the cheatee I suppose we have to accept responsibility if the cheater intents to re - offend and I was interested to see how others thought about it...
amen to that... they have no idea of the distruction they cause ... but maybe one day karma will catch up with them (no I don't have a vindictive bone in my body... )
So Merri ... based on your experience you wouldn't reckon on adding money to your super... only that I was thinking of doing it .. at present I'm jumping up and down, because I lost 270 dollars - how does a superfund justify charging 270 dollars for admin costs - blazes...
I was listening to a lady discuss intentions and responsiblity..
In the context she stated.."that giving up a child ... her intention was to give this child a better life, however, she has no responsiblity of what happened to that child being brought up by his/her adoptive family", she then went on to say that it is the same when a spouse cheats - the intention was not there ..." however, if the cheater decided that the intention was not there for the first, surely by the time 2nd, 3rd, 4th and so on, the cheater did have intentions
Nope ... wouldn't even dream of it... I don't even like going out with men my own age ... they always remind me of the boys in my class... idiotic and juevenile... I was and still am comfortable with men older than me ... present man in my life is 5 years older...
and btw for those that are interested ... I was a housewife for 20 odd years raising my children (my ex supported me up until I secured a job), I have a background in nursing... when my marriage went belly up... I did courses in admin... and guess what? I now work in a factory as a process worker ... I didn't care where I worked as long as I was paid the legistative amount, and it did not include shift work or weekends so that I can still take care of my children... even if they are 15 and 17
I just see these dogs being to big for a normal backyard.. I guess I was being judgemental as I see these dogs as working dogs not house dogs, like corgis, or poodles...
Happiness is getting up in the morning and still being alive to enjoy the simple pleasures of life - overcoming obstacles, learning a new task, beating my partner in scramble .. Oh Yeah!!! enjoying my childen - particularly when on the rare accassion I have them altogether under the same roof...
It's like our stupid council - people have acreage, but if it's not the size etc., then you can't keep geese, chooks, or even a friggin horse... lady had put a submission into council to state that her ducks and geese had the access to the 2.5 acres that council said was legal... honestly I agree with the comment posted about dogs - people have small yards and 2 big rotweillers or a couple of greyhounds... when does common sense prevail...
absolutely, positively NOT!!! not with him (ex) anyway .... I still only believe half of what he tells me ... but in a new relationship, you have to meet that person half way, and trust is one of the key factors...
I expected my marriage to last forever, but guess what.. it didn't .. nothing lasts forever including marriage... yeah I'm a little cynical these days ... and even though I am in relationship, who knows when and how long it will last ...
seriously - divorce is the ultimate decision one makes and that's usually after attending councelling sessions but once the decision has been made, there is no going back..
marriages break up for many reasons - lack of communication, cheating spouses, work, finances, just to name a few...
cheez I'm with woolworths and for $29 I get 500 credit and 5gb mobile data - they use the optus network
I also have a telstra i65 phone, which is a rural phone, out in the country it can pick up any telstra or optus tower... great when I was in WA...except when driving through pine forest plantations...
joining in the forums either by just reading the threads or responding gives you insight on how other people think and feel plus I get to have my twopence say .. it's like sitting around a table and everyone chipping in... communication... it's great...
bubbles2012 Forum Posts (784)
karma will catch up with them 
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I keep hearing my music on their phones and ipods
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no not about grief Serene about intentions and responsibility...the cheatee cannot assume responsibility for the intentions of the cheater, however, mulling it over my head for most of the day... as the cheatee I suppose we have to accept responsibility if the cheater intents to re - offend and I was interested to see how others thought about it...