I would rather love and be hurt than not having loved at all..... in an ideal world (MY ideal world at least) i would like the person i fall in love with to be madly in love with me but that doesnt always happen does it???!!! It's not enough if a person loves you, they need to love you in the same way you love them.
Being loved??? hmmmm tricky, can be difficult when feelings are not reciprocal, i do not like to lead people on not to hurt their feelings cause in the end it will only make matters worse.
Have enough wind in yr family to risk making more??? well maybe in the future you'll consider the harp (which btw was the original intended word instead of 'har"d")
God is creation and life - religion on the other hand is a choice hence the varied options available to all who seek and need it.
BUT, on the other hand, although i strongly believe God has no gender, had God been female ahhhhhhh picture this - life would be given that softer touch, picture fairies dancing around to the hard around the fountains, peace and serenity
OK OK OK we all know that doesnt exist - i would simply keep all as it is, this way its fair and everybody wins + life is great as it is, especially when we give our contribution to make it a better place through our daily activities.
Jacko pls relax i wouldnt want to arrive and have to take you to the hospital because you stopped breathing - we need you in the best of health and spirits.
Women who love children will have no problem loving your children as their own. Love has nothing to do with genes (adoption successes) but about acceptance, who knows maybe they would want to build a larger family with you in the future too in addition to the child/children from your previous relationship.
There is a possibility that some of the girls you met were not ready to be parents and that was the real reason behind it. So it can be more about timing that anything else, being 'ready' is not a question of age but is an individual process.
Good luck, you'll find the right one who will accept you and your children as one.
Over here Halloween is not so big however on the increase in the last few years (as kids watch more and more American TV) and although i am normally a very calm and tolerant person, i admit i felt like driving over some of them last year.
About a dozen kids decided to give their parents a break and hit the road criss-crossing in between cars and having a ball of a time not allowing cars to drive past as they joked around doing scary poses etc. Thankfully this was resolved some time later, i think the Police must have been called in before anyone got hurt cause they had taken it way too far and i wasnt alone tempted to drive over them in the home of getting home from work.
I am all in for some harmless fun as long as it remains clean and fun for all.
Everything happens for a reason.....even if it seems frustrating and doesnt make sense. Believe in destiny, when we don't listen to ourselves enough, destiny has a way of pinching us to get our attention.
Go out in nature, spend as much time as you can spare there, stop to listen, smell, take your shoes off and feel free. In this peaceful moment thoughts will start falling into place...... maybe not solutions but you will start to understand why this may be happening and move from there.
RE: The age!!!
....Keep waiting who knows in a few years you might get the answer