I actually have a seafarer's passport, but haven't sailed for many years... Last time I did almost ended in a disaster, horrific storm in the Arabian Gulf...
I'm not available, and as far as I remember Dee has a date... so no chance Chris... We have nothing to argue over tho... I only wanted to know what were the horrible expectations this guy had before we push him down on the ground and kick the hell out of him... Fair enough I think...
The point with the proverbs is to be used right on the spot...you missed it... I'll let you have the last word tho, I don't want you to lose your sleep...
The original post is about lack of experience, then it suddenly turns into complain about extremely high expectations with no examples whatsoever... Maya didn't bother answer simple questions and I wonder what was the purpose of the thread... The situation is unclear and every opinion is just freestyle figuring out... It's not an intimate relationship as we understood so not a big deal to share what exactly he did expect from her... I believe she can speak for herself if she wanted to...
Yes, there is something missing and it's what is this so impossible thing that a guy can expect from someone who is just a date?! I want to know the expectations she "had to live up to"... All I see is lots of words with no actual point...
He was an educated, intelligent, capable and (at least for me) attractive man. Nothing wrong with him, no 'mom's boy' or anything similar. I thought that he had had relationships previously and if I'd known the truth, I wouldn't have got myself emotionally involved. I was very shocked when he told me the truth and I suppose - i should have felt flattered - but instead all I felt was - a lot of pressure. Even if I stretched myself and did impossible to satisfy all his ideals - I couldn't. And, it made me completely dissatisfied at the same time, because I also had expectations, he didn't fulfill. I tried to talk to him, but it was difficult. I think that my 'complaining' was just a proof for him that - after all - I wasn't that ideal woman he was looking for (although I told him that I was an average and ordinary person from the start). It made me even more unhappy, because it started affecting my self-esteem very badly. In any other situation - I would have probably left immediately - but I really liked him and I saw many qualities in him and - thought he was worth the effort. But, I couldn't go on for a long time and - in the end - I had to leave. I think it was the right choice after all... Although, I'm still a little sad and somehow feel as if I 'failed'.
Sorry Maya,
I still don't understand what were the expectations you couldn't fulfill... Expectations of an inexperienced man... Why did you lose confidence? I just don't get it... If he had expectations he knew what he wanted, right? Something is missing in the story
Jesus, no... I eat whatever I like but balance the proportions, I'd eat a big piece of cake in the morning when my day is busy... I have a nice collection of dark chocolates at work to give me energy when I don't have time for a meal. I love bread, I can not live without bread... Regular exercise and lots of walking... By the way most vegetarians I know are overweight...
RE: Have u tried ur hand at big river or sea boating ?
Good one Pete...
Happy holidays