I think the man just haven't found his type of woman... I don't know what kind of impossible expectations one can have... What did he actually expect from you? There is no enough information for us to make conclusions...
All my books I bought from bouquinistes or old people who sell them in front of their houses at a symbolic price (cause they"d hate to throw them away). They are not too many but carefully selected and exept the Russian and French classics I've never laid my eye on a book that everybody reads...
They tried it when I was living in Leeds, UK, complaining that Christmas decoration on streets hurts their feelings... It's amazing how quickly people forget...I think the European immigrants were more outraged than the locals...
We do not always understand why people are content with life that will never be attractive to us... But it doesn't mean we have the right to dictate and push for a change that will not survive in an enviroment and mentality drastically different from ours...
Nobody likes to be in the position of the spare wheel...if you are chatting to someone you must have liked something about them already... Friendly zone...who wants to be there when dating?
Relocation is the last thing two people will consider before they are both willing and ready for that move, it could take years or just months, it could remain a LDR and be good enough for both... Possibilities and options are countless... Where there is a will there is a way...(my favourite )
Even dating local could be a problem, she is 100 miles away and has a career, family, and so on... He has his family, friends and a job that he likes... And it's 100 miles, right... It's same with a 1000 miles, one has to sacrifice... If you are on an international dating site you must have thought about this at some point...
With all the modern technology it's easy to get more realistic before it happens in reality... There will be hardly anything that would turn completely not what one has expected...if you put the time and attention into work long enough...
Well, if I chat to someone as a friendly encounter, he will remain exactly that, a friendly encounter...I wouldn't call him a friend tho...and would not date him for sure... May be I'm too backward and would not engage in multiple chatting with men who have other than friendly intentions...I'll give my time and attention to one only...
It's kind of normal in 21 century to start dating someone online and later on take it to real life... Many people won't have a date for ages if relying only on meeting someone in the supermarket...
I believe the virtual side of the online dating makes most people do things they won't find appropriate if dating in reality... The window shopping is dangerous and gives an unrealistic confidence that you can put a lot in your basket and choose what to go to the check out later... Giving the time and involving real effort to get to know someone you have a genuine interest in is the best way to go... It doesn't take long before you know if there's something or not...
KremaP Forum Posts (3,793)
RE: The lack of experience
I think the man just haven't found his type of woman...I don't know what kind of impossible expectations one can have...
What did he actually expect from you? There is no enough information for us to make conclusions...