There are many guys that are gentlemanly enough to let a woman dictate the pace of the relationship and respond to the signs given them.
For example, if a woman touches a guys hand, he will respond and hold hands...
If you want the guy to phone you ... say so, as in, “call me tomorrow” and he will, likewise for meetups, ask when he proposes seeing you again.
You need to get with the program if you want to participate, no point spending hours of heartache trying to second guess what the guy is going to do or how he feels about you.
I think the toothpaste thing is definately a deal breaker!
Seriously though, I think the final straw is when you wake up one morning and realise it's not going to work long term regardless of the fact so much is good and the match is right.
Take Eva Gardiner and Frank Sinatra, a match made in heaven but they couldnt get it together.
Jealousy is not an emotion that should be present in a relationship. That said, I accept that cases exist whereby the attraction of one for another can be so forceful that jealousy arises despite the person knowing the relationship is strong.
I would suggest that jealousy normally manifests itself after an event. For example seeing an ex GF/BF start a relationship with another person.
Just the fact your previous fella told you he had received a message from another woman is in my opinion a clarification that he felt the relationship between you was solid.
I am still running Windows XP which I like, however, is no longer supported. Shall continue with this for the moment.
With a greater number of sites now requiring acceptance of cookies and or the need to "sign up", I fear programs like the new Windows 10 will record computer usage under the guise of "marketing purposes", however, it would not surprise me that somewhere along the line the security services have there sticky fingers involved for the purposes of monitoring any activity they consider illegal or a threat to National security (whatever that is)
I voted "no" as I do not see dating sites as form of shopping.
When I was young, single guys and girls went to ballrooms to dance, the guys on one side the girls on the other. Each picked a person they wanted to dance with, sometimes the request was accepted sometimes not. This was a very successful way of finding romance and in more instances than not led to a relationship.
I see dating sites in a similar vain, the only difference is you see the person in a profile. Once you pick the person you want to talk to and send them a text or flower it then depends on whether that person wants to reply.
I have been relatively successful in finding friends and girlfriends here on CS. As in real life you spend time getting to know that person either through mail or phone or skype and if things work out you meet.... It pretty much is as simple as that.
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RE: Is he / she interested or not?
There are many guys that are gentlemanly enough to let a woman dictate the pace of the relationship and respond to the signs given them.For example, if a woman touches a guys hand, he will respond and hold hands...
If you want the guy to phone you ... say so, as in, “call me tomorrow” and he will, likewise for meetups, ask when he proposes seeing you again.
You need to get with the program if you want to participate, no point spending hours of heartache trying to second guess what the guy is going to do or how he feels about you.