have you any idea how dangerous we'd be girlfriend??!!!
dayum!.. so here's the deal...september twilight, long summer nights, the children running naked in the sprinklers in the park......i'll bring the drums and you can have my guitar
i felt for a long time that having my own children was indulgent , especially when there were so many children in the countries i work in that desperately needed families to adopt them.
then i began to investigate adopting and found that my single status was not very successful for the process..so i began to search out and investigate alternatives..
and selecting my preferences from a directory of candidates was just a little too impersonal. sooooooo i had a friend that i admired for a very long time and knew well and i asked him, and fortunately for both of us I conceived on the first try.and have a beautiful daughter.
i gave him the option of being involved or not, and said if he was, he must be conscientiously involved and not half assed, i asked him to be painfully honest as to what he was willing to do and if he was willing it was fine with me, i did not ask for child support or alimony and have never taken any from any of the fathers of my children, just as i would not want to be expected to pay them for parenting their child.
no one needs to pay me for being a mother to my children and i will not pay the father for it either..
i don't think it sounds cold...just unfamiliar...people research which automobile they will buy they research which stereo, which house, which insurance policy...
they educate themselves in many fields of expertise why not child bearing?
i don't believe in god so it makes perfect sense to me to have a clear choice in who sires my children!
i chose the donor for my last child based on temperment and qualities of character.genetic strength and health...she is outstanding...ask anyone that's been here!
betcha some opinions and judgements get served over this one!!!
yes you are asking for something your gov. is not able to give you
you are asking that the santa clause story be proven true...it's a myth, a fairy tale, a marketing plot, ...but it's ok those boys and girls will come home ruined and sick and have a different story to tell just like the vietnam vets...
RE: the Ideal Type
i don't mean to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!i was just born that way