Cyn_Real Forum Posts (515)

RE: Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?

It doesn't matter...but we should consider that the guy is prospective partner and that is not sudden date... I mean, I would not ask a date if I just met him 5 minutes ago...


BTW, women don't know what's on your mind and you cannot expect us to be a mind reader... We don't even know you are a shy guy or not... and you cannot expect Miss Right falls from the sky... we like confident men (men who never ask the world these question : am I attractive ??? why does no woman mail/flower me??? How do I get a date ??? etc etc)... if you are afraid of a failure, you better stay at home and don't do anything...

RE: Can you define LOVE?! What Love is?

special feeling that definitely makes the world go round...

RE: What makes a man attractive for a woman?

True !!! couldn't agree more with you but there are still some exceptions

RE: What makes a man attractive for a woman?

single, have manners, sense of humour...

RE: What would you do if your bf still lives with his ex-wife?

I've met similar guy a while back... French guy married to Chinese lady... He told me his wife is boring and always complain all the time and they sleep in separate rooms nowadays... We just met on the train (he sat next to me) then he asked 'forbidden affair' just after 3 minutes talking... hahahahahaha...Luckily, the next station saved my life...

RE: Friend Zone

There are lots of reasons when 2 good friends holding back from making an attempt even though both of them love each other...It happened to me, some relatives, some friends of mine and I think it also happened to many other people as well...

Classic reasons could be parents disagreement, different religion, different background, incompatibility...and many other...

and I don't have problem if things didn't work out then we just remain friends... Maybe there is an ego issue if we think that we should not talk with them anymore, but I think that is very childish act... I still say Hello to my ex and it doesn't cost me any cent...I have no idea why some people even had ideas to post something terrible on ex's FB wall then unfriend them just because things don't work out...

RE: If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting

No. I think the guys we have been talking are also talking with many other ladies as well... so I guess we should not expect more if there is still no single sign into something special... It is a process... Finding someone special takes time... but I finally found now and stop texting/talking with the other guys...

RE: If a guy doesn't call/ text how do you respond, after you have been talking/texting

I am actually talking with many guys, so if one guy left me, there would be nothing to think about...LOL...My brother teach me, when a man hasn't put a ring on me, I should not think about him like a crazy...LOL... I think he is right... that's why I am always happy...


Take it easy... That is not the end of the world...

RE: POSSIBILITY RATE OF ENDLESS LOVE. I SOLVED IT. :)

just choose somebody who comes from the place where most people in that place still believe in it and still have optimistic about it...

RE: A good heart these days is hard to find? True or false. Is looks more important? etc

it is just an analogy, Jac... everyone wants happiness, not heartache...

RE: how far would u travel to meet someone from c s

been there, done that...but not from CS...not anymore !!!

RE: Has anyone here left you left you breathless, but also frustrated (due to logistics)?

NEVER. Because I love the real things...I always give credits into something real...something proven...


So, texting/messaging/skype-ing are not the real thing...just like a plain water...


Zero distance relationship is the real thing for me... I gave up LDR after about I got 5-6 months membership... I love the real things...

RE: How To Marry the Man of Your Choice

just pick the right man... LOL

RE: whats the story or meaning behind your screen name?

it is just another cyber name and I love the real things

RE: how long should one wait before total intimacy

too hurry is boring...no more curiousity left...
6 months is too short... not romantic... communication and sharing are much more important than just a hook up...


I've met someone local (he is handsome French) not so long ago that expected it in just a few minutes after our first meeting... then I cancelled the next meetings... and have met some other similar types too that are also BORING...


my fiancé is better and not boring...

RE: Ok, Mens perspective. How do men show they are in love?

speaking from personal experiences...

RE: What are you looking for in the site?

100% curiousity brought me here...

RE: Ok, Mens perspective. How do men show they are in love?

he would not give up on you and is always be there for you....he will make you a part of his life...you are everything for him...




have you ever met a man said and proved it to you ???

RE: Experiences

...Decent people would not easily give themselves away to strangers from another continent within 2 weeks... and even it is locally...it sounds very odd...


but I am not sure if it is a normal way in other part of the world... I always hear people saying "never trust stranger"...


but...yeah... I probably will fall in love within 15 minutes if I knew that all people are perfectly nice...

RE: is smoking a rebellion against society?

NO...


but if you surrounded by non smokers community, then it could be a rebellion act...

RE: Writing to someone without reading his or her profile is:

I thought it happens to everyone...

RE: do u think a long distance can work ?

Are you talking about successful LDR ??? Everyone has different ideas about it. At what stage would you define a relationship as successful ????


For me, texting & Skype-ing is not succesful relationship.

RE: Do you think you can find LOVE on CS

oh yeah... but it is still me, not someone else pictures...LOL

RE: Do you think you can find LOVE on CS

New pictures, eh ?


Can you teach me how to ask permission to the mods about changing old pictures with new different pictures ?

RE: A man and a woman apparently don't make a couple anymore

the era where 5 years relationship counts as long term...LOL













that's why I prefer men with black hair & black eyes... (j/k)

RE: Who's hotter? Jennifer Aniston, Jennifer Lopez or Jennifer Garner?

depends.....


you see them on red carpet or after gym time or after jogging...or after wake up...

RE: Have you scared someone off due to you are too passionate?

I guess this question is more suitable for men in general. Some scared me off and made me do a runner because some of them are "very hungry" and "too hurry" then I changed my number for few weeks.

In reverse, no man will refuse it unless he is a gay or maybe too shy...

RE: Should CS be just for singles?

it is all about finding only one woman, right ?





Frankly, you have enough ammunitions to get just one decent woman. You also can speak several languages that definitely could expand your searching target. 180cm and not fat. I don't see you have any trouble.





then why do so many guys that are shorther or uglier or fatter can find their partners and happily taken ???

RE: I am so tired of people judging me by my looks

It also happened to me a while back... I just ignored him after knowing that women in his origin are only going to rob their men through the court....


you better ignore people who seem to know everything without even trying your shoes...

RE: Free sites are better or worse than payed dating sites

both work if people less demanding.