I have not read all the comments. But I believe that in order to move forward,there has to be a certain amount of forgiveness. It can be extremely difficult depending on the circumstances too. You don't have to forget what has happened,but with unforgiveness it creates bitterness and anger and then can manifest onto the Physical. With the stresses that accompany the unforgiveness people can often lead towards to becoming more dependant on substances such as Alchol or what have you to relieve the anxieties.
I don't think we want to get to a point of self destrction from bitterness then in turn start hurting others. So in my opinion it is vitally important. With time for healing and changing some thought patterns,then this can certainlly be achieved.
When I see these individuals and read these stories,it is heart wrenching. We live our lives and sometimes take for granted that we too could end up in a life shattering situation from both sides and within a split second our normal routines are taken away from us. I can not honestly answer this without ever having been in the same shoes. But knowing it would not come without the mental strain having a huge impact. In saying this,I would like to believe that if it were I,given if my partner was still able and wishing to have children,I would give them the option to opt out of the relationship. I would not wish to be a burden on anyone,I would feel more comfortable in at least giving them the choice. If I loved them,then this would be my personal decision.
Speaking of not very brights....I remember years back,I was cutting a neighbours hair in the back yard,afterwards I told her to check out the back for length. She was sitting with only a small hand mirror trying to look at the back.
Ask her what her history is as far as any irregular periods. Not uncommon with stress,anxiety and a few other factors,depends also on the woman's levels and whether the test not sensitive enough to show a proper reading. Either way better to be safe than sorry,best get her checked by a Doc. I know myself even though I checked myself through a home pregnancy test,I did still do a follow up at the Doctors. Good luck.
Well,each to their own really. It probably wouldn't have bothered me as much back in my early day's. But surprisingly where I live,I've noticed a lot of men in the older age bracket on date sites shirtless,the climate being an excuse. Preferably a guy with a shirt on for the profile picture,shows he presents himself well,bit like a job interview. However, if in the other profile pictures he isn't wearing a shirt because he is swimming ect,that is fine.
It's should be about presentation. I guess what your saying as far as playing the game,is how to react? just be assertive,set good standards as to what your looking for and don't settle for less.
I do agree with you to a degree. I've also seen some of the documentaries on what make up consists of,and it is pretty scary,look at a lot of other products we humans use all for enhancing and hygiene purposes ect. Perhaps making mention of the Ancient Egyptians again lol and looking at the more natural alternatives.
Basically a lot of make up isn't what the advertisers tell us we know. The enormous amount that is spent to look more youth full,I personally prefer not to use concealers or foundations mainly because they can enhance the fine lines and make the skin appear much older,obviously on more mature skin. Where as I personally do like wearing make up on occasions,I still believe it should accentuate a woman's beauty not define it. As they say less is more,I was always taught to look after my skin more importantly before anything else.
Alright,I'm going to try and look at it this way..lol firstly,I'll try and make it positive. These woman you speak of that you seem to be attracting, well there's a lot of people out there full stop that like to complain and wing ect. They would be the passive aggressive type.Also as long as your not the one that they are complaining about and that your sure you haven't p***d them off. People who complain are usually miserable sods anyway,if they keep doing it over and over and choose to pick arguments ect. There is that other side of like attracts like,so being one hundred percent and aware of your own behaviors is a start. I also understand the point of manners,I'm very much that way myself and too, the way I was brought up. There are still many of us ladies left who do not complain,or angry unhappy so and so's. So all I can say is good luck,but if they are consistently rude in your neck of the woods try venturing further a field. We aren't too rude down here I hope? lol
Hi Daveland, Your allowed to have your feelings validated. Those two basic emotions In Life – Love and Fear
There are those two basic emotions that we all experience, love and fear. All other emotions are variations of these two emotions. Thoughts and behavior come from either a place of love, or a place of fear. It's only natural you would be feeling fear at this point,as they say time is the greatest healer,in time you will see this as a learning process,and be able to make some positive changes. Yes,I have been in your shoes in the past. Best wishes.
Well,Make up has been around for centuries,the Ancient Egyptians during the 1st Egyptian Dynasty. Unguent, a substance used to prevent the skin from drying up due to heat and to avoid wrinkles, was extensively used by people of both genders during that era. Men shave and pluck their nose hair,for appearances. Make up is or should be for enhancing,as long as not over done,it gives confidence and shows a person who takes care of themselves.Incidentally some woman are anemic,and rather pale and washed out looking in appearance,so a bit of enhancer to help the pigmentation doesn't go astray.
Well,hopefully I may be able to make a change in your opinion? Yes,your correct in the sense Australians can be rude some of them,like anywhere else in the world. Perhaps try a different approach to the ones you find rude/offensive here in the forums. It's humanly impossible for everyone to get along in this world little lone in the Forums section.
I'd have to say we aren't prudish where I come from,the opposite in fact,just easy going laid back life style,so stop your winging and enjoy a 'Tinnie'.....
Yes, indeed I've heard of this character,however not in great detail. I shall now endevour to read up more about it,which you have now prompted me to do. Thanks,
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RE: Would you break the law to save someone's life?
Without a doubt,yes. The law can wait.