I would consider how willing she is to please you, that is telling, and look at differences in opinion and how that is handled between you two. Good luck
Getting rid of 'it' has some terrible connotations....but I'm afraid I would have to, as I personally don't worship animals more than people; ironically everyone and everything is disposable.
It would depend on a few things I think.....like how awesome he is....whether he's worth that type of sacrifice and certainly how much I care for him; you may love or you may not love another that much
RE: Feast of Souls