I would not blame the third party either; your spouse is making the choice to betray.....the third party is simply someone who has no morals or integrity..but in reality they owe you nothing.
The "happiness rate" is truly the indicator here.... ...but that is something we'll never really know. How do you measure it and then compare cultures?
I like the English, I also like the Irish. I will not get into specifics or start generalizing since that can prove silly at best.... but I would advise you personally to channel your passion towards doing something positive in your own life so that it can reflect who you truly are.
An arranged marriage is a form of marriage, which is arranged by the parents of the couple being married. These marriages can also be arranged based on recommendations of friends and family. This form of marriage is also convenient for those who have been unable to find a suitable match on their own. Some parents may consider the choice of the children before making or accepting a proposal, while some may impose their choices on their children. The modern arranged marriages are informally arranged. The parents compile all the personal details of their child that includes hobbies, interests, educational and family background and a photograph. This information is supplied to marriage bureaus or is sent in response to matrimonial ads. A meeting is arranged between the couple and in most cases, courting is also permitted. Arranged marriages are quite common in several countries such as India, Afghanistan, Japan, Iraq, and Iran. Instances of arranged marriages are also found frequently in North America that has varied cultures.
The latest trend in arranged marriages is selecting a suitable spouse through the Internet. Individuals submit their profile on various matrimonial websites to find an appropriate match. They may get in touch with that person on the phone or through email to develop a cordial relationship.
Arranged marriage is a convenient form of marriage as it is based on religious, educational, and financial compatibility. Parents are usually happy as the marriage bears their seal of approval. Many parents arrange a marriage as a business strategy to grow and expand their business. Property matters can be a very influential factor in arranged marriages. However, these marriages may fail as the relationship is need based and most people have accepted this option only because they failed in love or were unable to find the love of their life on their own.
Statistics suggest that the divorce rate in arranged marriages is comparatively low. There are several instances of couples that have madly fallen in love with each other after they had an arranged marriage.[/quote
I agree with pretty much everything you have said so far except for one thing......all those parameters do not guarantee you will actually fall in love with the person.
Different strokes for different folks.....but I personally think many enjoy the challenge more than anything.....the chase.....the pot at the end of the rainbow......the grass on the other side of the fence? And some people are clueless and lazy, unmotivated to do what it takes to sustain a relationship, which takes so much even in the most fortunate of circumstances.
I think it's creating a freak generation whereas people start to look alike in some respects........and it's causing others who are mentally immature or unstable to feel like they are less or not able to properly compete with the ones who have had procedures done. In some minor respects it may be that it's acceptable to do it as long as the integrity of your persona isn't violated
Give her time, stick around, and don't just give up.....don't be too idealistic either....life's too short and the ones who are alive owe to themselves to live their lives....
RE: What does open minded mean?
Does that mean you're camping with the old farts?