Whether or not we are "qualified" to fall in love ....... it would have never occurred to me.....but we see the casualties of love everywhere all the time, including here.....
I am concerned for your lil girl; your son is old enough to know better. You need to handle this very intelligently before it becomes a bigger problem. At least you know.
Love at its very best is gentle and sublime, romantically speaking.... on a practical day to day basis, you need to have commmon goals and ideals, and a good amount of patience and flexibility.
I thought and thought and thought some more, and I don't know if there is something wrong with me or everyone else..... but I could not come up with anything concrete, since I'm not here to socialize with the girls......
It may manifest itself when others are overstepping their boundaries for one.... when you recognize your own vulnerabilities and a need for self protection and preservation.
Is it wrong to want to help others more than yourself? It's innocent and sweet, and precarious. Look at what they did to Jesus.
That's probably because it's one thing to date and have fun, and another to face life's hardships together on a daily basis; some are not made for marriage and all that it entails.
RE: What's the worst type...
Let God handle that Erika; believe me he does...