Well Diogenes for most women the ego when it comes to their own womanhood and abilities to charm and seduce is just as bad as some men's about their virility and endowment; there you have it, you just made me say it.....
We learn about ourselves and others all the time. Sometimes things turn out the way we want them to, other times they don't.... Personally I try to learn something from each experience whether good or not so positive. Also there are standards to be maintained under all circumstances; surely all of us can keep up our impecable facade in triumph and happiness...... show yourself to the world when things aren't what you expected them to be. We all have good days and bad days also and I do take that into consideration about others, but when the bad days and the deliberation are running back to back ruthlessly to destroy other people and their reputation, then, I am afraid that speaks for itself loud enough.
I admire older individuals who have lived their lives well, are wise, have taken care of themselves and are an inspiration to the rest of us; I actually find it very attractive.
The way you live your life shows on your face; whether you are doing drugs are an alcoholic a womanizer, etc... it takes its toll and you cannot hide it.
RE: Cyber Friendships...