Done enough relocating, so I find her here or become that grump old man yelling at kids stay off my yard. 30 to 50? miles is my limit, no more long distant relationships for me. I'm not moving or paying for someone to come here.
Its not money to me but the standard of living is at the beginning and what they become accustom to. When money levels drops below that comfort level is when the stress comes out. When it drops quickly than the couple is use to, stress is even greater. Its not the money but a triggering factor in what once was happy relationship. So yeas money does become a factor in a relationship.
i think its the same for most guys, we talk ourselves in to being intimate with someone and find out that its not going to work out. So its back pedaling because you dont want to hurt the one you just got with feelings but you dont wont to be there either. Now its a rock and a hard place.
I do see your point put its nice to meet because then there something in the air, the light, or whatever that makes it something special.
Ones I meet at school were smart and funny, they were fun to hang around with and try to get to smile. Very Nice smiles. Nothing went anywhere because well I was a bit more on the radical apperance and was not family material.
Its not types I think but the person myself. I'm of the age that I was there in 1995 watching the internet started to become a public place. People dialing in with AOL, Compuserve, the whatevers. I also grew going camping, watching a punk rock, hang out with friends, heck just trying to find things to do instead of staying home. You had to able to talk to get a person interested and now it seems that social act of talking is going down. Now look at my words to make sure I'm trying to get the right message across and learning to choose a inflection on messages. In a way its like righting a love letter.
Now the profiles they have to say something to me, I cant say how man I might of passed when they start off with "I'm looking for a caring, honest, respectful man.". I'm mean are we not all looking for those qualities in a relationship. I guess what I'm saying is how do you tell if person going respond or just ignore. I just feel sometimes that I'm throwing out handful of BadinPaid(which was a miss spell that I didn't catch. It was suppose to be be BadinPlaid) intro cards. I just loses a little of the social part to me I guess. Well I'm going to say to those the Looked at my profile and say hi.
I never said it doesn't work in the second paragraph I just wondering if I'm doing online singles thing right. I do the search, read profiles and, if anything stick out that catches my interest I send a introduction. this is where I get stuck, I commit to the conversation until its done. So I really dont go checking other profiles until no response comes back from person, it not going anywhere or their a scam.
I've been sitting here trying to figure out the type of women one wants to meet. I really cant say that starts me off to talk to a women. It could be her eyes, smile, clothes, something she said, anything that catches my interest. I ran the gambit dating or relationships with women and never had a set type. Yes there are things I dont like in people on general, rudeness, lying, over sense of worth, dumbness and what not. I really cant know if I connect with someone until I know them.
The next paragraph is ramble, read if so desires too.
Maybe its just I remember the old way you had to do it, by going up to a woman in real life and introduce yourself. If it went well,you got a number to set up a date. Now online it seems a different more like shopping than meeting. Is it that I'm bring old thoughts in to a new medium of dating or is it that I'm holding back and should use the scatter shot method(your bound to hit something). In a way I'm trying to figure out if online is the way.
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RE: Would You Relocate For Love?
Done enough relocating, so I find her here or become that grump old man yelling at kids stay off my yard. 30 to 50? miles is my limit, no more long distant relationships for me. I'm not moving or paying for someone to come here.