Waiting for the right man,or the left man,anyway,I miss being half of a couple,but it has to be for the right reason not loneliness that will bring heartache to both someday.
think as unfortunate as it is that woman of beauty get treated better in most ways by others,men and woman alike,at least in USA.We tend to like,bend for pretty woman.Playing stupid works and some learn to work it well.Just life can't change human nature. As for men,when I was a teen looks or popularity counted in liking a boy.As a mature adult I look inside,not at the outer crust of a person.If a man has looks to go with his warmth caring,coutesy,etc. that's only a plus.
Probably while he was in office a better place.However it would go back into the hands of the elite and back to the 2 parties who always are much more reconized and always 1 or the other gets there man in office.
Hey welcome back!Wondered what happened after last mail.Glad to see you back,alot of people new since you left first time,some old forum folks gone.Of course myself and a few others are still here.I am not on as often as I am dating some and busy with life.So good to see you here ,really .Take care and stop in more often.
I like to hear real honesty,yes there are a few who still are truthful ,naysayers.I would like to know some about the gentleman currently.I would like a letter that comes as a friend first type letter and no e-address's.Some one who is not desparatley writing every woman,but looking at my profile and maybe forum posts and finds me someone he would like to know better.I could write a page on this thread but I will shut up(as many breath a sigh of releif ).
I have dated an alcoholic,and since he didn't partake eiter did I.It was a good relationship and ended for other reasons,we were young and realized this was not the real thing.I gain dated a man for years with this illness.He attended AA and was a great person,he had a disease,but no different to me than a person who has breathing problems and is addicted to cigs.If you can and will be willing to recover and find a power higher than yourself.It is like all addictions,a sickness,a disease not a choice to be made.Addicts are addicts and those who recover are all the stronger for it.My 3 cents.
I found a stray kitten a home on Sunday but the gentleman friend who would take the kitten left before we could coax him in the house.So later in the evening,he came to door to eat and I got him in,he was here with me and my 3 boys,sorry cats until my friend came out today to get him.He didn't want to get in cage and cried.I hope it will work for him in his new home of 3 people and a dog and grown cat.I miss him but couldn't do another 1,meant to stop at 2.So on my mind.Otherwise,weather is crisp,like it.I am having a good day physically and am thankful for that.Nice to have time to spend in forums,havn't been on much lately. hope you all had a positive day and since all probably didn't ,to those who didn't and to all and
I ended a friendship sadly over a woman I knew since 13 yrs. old,we were in school together.As an adult she and my commited boyfriend,went behind my back and did the wild thing.In front of me they never gave me a clue.I ended it with both though I cared for both very much.Trust issue came in to play.Maybe if it had been another 2 people another time in my life I would have let it go, I forgave them for the act but the trust as I said in all ways was gone with both.
Having said that,I at this time in my life have only a few people I really want to call friends,can't say for sure,but would forgive theses few much if they apologized sincerely for whatever.True friends arn't that easy to come by.I prefer many people stay aquaintances.
Another yes vote for those married folks who started on hre,found someone,here or elsewhere and are still around.We would miss much if they all left.I thought it odd when I first came on and Peaches and Ray were on here married.However I know know if I marry,I my well come into threads to say hi to people I have got to know.This to me is not like any other site I am or was on.It's different here,the interaction we have.So if I opposed those couples being here,I'd never know that people really do find love on datng sites.I feel to each thier own and there are some singles I'd rather see leave honestly.
RE: hi friends..../
Hello welcome or welcome back .enjoy yourself and keep an eye open you will see 2 of the 3 on here eventually they are around.