I think you are right about men who believe women constantly cry over their husbands who have died Montemonte. But not me. Somehow I was relieved to be free.I really dont have any baggage!
I realise that I am looking for more than there is on offer. It could stem from me having my own independance perhaps? Or me being unable to trust and believe the men I meet?
I am a sincere honest person - so I will not mislead any man - in the same way I wont want to be mislead. Thank you for your comment.......
I am keeping my options open - he is not what I am really looking for - the beauty of dating is that I can decide when I want to settle for who I choose. I have told him - he is nice - but I am not ready yet - I think gorgeous men intimidate me - so I will take my time........
Hi Migsy No I am not begging for a man - you may be misunderstanding me? I say I tell people I am happy and they are sceptical. Is it hard to believe that some people are happy? That they have worked hard to be happy and they have earned the right to be happy? And yes I am seeking a man - why else will I be here? I do want to meet a nice man. Until then, I do not want to be pessimistic and become a bitter twisted person.
I have led a good life. I made my good life happen! I was restricted, but I broke down barriers and built my career and raised 2 gorgeous kids in the process.
Then I became a widow. I mourned my loss and then I moved on..... I am happy and content - I dont deny that I miss male company. But I am able to do things I want to do, when I want to do it. Golf, movies, cooking, watching sport and laughing! This I do.... I revel in my freedom. I laugh at loneliness, I enjoy my life and the life I am living.
Then why wont people believe me. I AM looking for a nice, kind single man who will love me, he is out there I know. Until then believe me - I am happy!!!
It is cowardly and malicious! Its a sign of callousness. Some people thrive on hurting others feelings - in the process they become devoid of feeling anything!
Hiya Rumple4skin (this name amuses me - yeah small mind huh?)
I loved ALL your comments - you know how to stir huh? I hate the "Starvation Syndrome" that women put themselves through...
A guy once put it this way...... "I go to the Butchers and I buy a pound of meat - I want the meat! If I want bones, I will ask for bones - in other words - Meat is meat, and a man must eat"
I am happy - please believe me!!!
Yeoville is a slum now Chris......I live in the Northern Suburbs - been here 22 years.
Not far from Sandton.
I am choosy - worked hard and earned the right to be......
Happy where I am - dont go into the city centre ever
Dont know when was the last you been in SA - you will have a surprise when you do...........