the choice to say NO to drink is never gone. never had been, ..never will be.
there are millions of ex drinkers worldwide that prove it, there will be many millions more to come.
if a disease or a body needing drink could take away choice and make people drink like programmed robots , then obviously there would be no recoveries ever , as they couldn't choose to stop.
the ex alcoholics worldwide chose to stop. whatever their reasons . maybe they hit rock bottom due to the negative ways it affected their lives, or bodies or those around them. whatever it was , they simply had enough of it and finally did choose themselves to stop. (all things considered) BIG CHOICES in life.
they didn't stop unknowing to themselves on basis that they had no faculty of choice and were just functioning robots who first had to drink and then something went wrong automatically in the programming and then suddenly they just had to stop. without say in any of it.
fact is, they themselves chose to stop. chose to stick with .decision.
never said you had a problem with alcoholism . never said why you do or don't drink it.
what I wrote was in relation to poll on alcoholism.
if you create poll and then hate folk on submitted comment so be it …..your choice.
I voted decision./choice …. no mysterious disease making anybody drink.
nothing to do with your posts about your husband. (I not read posts at time when I posted)
maybe you should make a poll with a list of ok answers to give that suit you. lol responders could choose from your list of answers and post back to you.
the CHOICE is totally yours as you know yourself ,
a reason is not a disease. , anymore than an opinion on alcoholism is.
if you have or had a problem with drink esp to the point of alcoholism in the past. my advice is to CHOOSE not to for everybodys sake. it affects people differently for various reasons. its not for everyone. I don't know how it has , or does affect you as you didn't say. if its badly then the choice is NO. continue with that CHOICE as you have been doing since 2002
I hope you don't mistakenly think that an opinion takes away your faculty of choice. or that being disheartened is a disease ……... that makes you drink.
but if you have no probs with drink, then cheers ,
the powers that be that start wars send their puppets out to fight them and give false honour following their slaughter. r.i.p. all victims
people don't give their lives up in war rather they try to evade death n injury. lives are lost and people are injured both soldiers and civilians. teens join the military for too many reasons to mention , job , adventure , wage, brainwashing , etc,..and are sucked in as soldiers , pawns for the powers that be.
following the slaughter their masters will say they gave their lives for their country . .. as if..
that's the bandwagon all pawns are loaded regardless of why they are in the military, joined or inscription.
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RE: Alcoholism
the choice to say NO to drink is never gone. never had been, ..never will be.there are millions of ex drinkers worldwide that prove it, there will be many millions more to come.
if a disease or a body needing drink could take away choice and make people drink like programmed robots , then obviously there would be no recoveries ever , as they couldn't choose to stop.
the ex alcoholics worldwide chose to stop. whatever their reasons . maybe they hit rock bottom due to the negative ways it affected their lives, or bodies or those around them. whatever it was , they simply had enough of it and finally did choose themselves to stop. (all things considered) BIG CHOICES in life.
they didn't stop unknowing to themselves on basis that they had no faculty of choice and were just functioning robots who first had to drink and then something went wrong automatically in the programming and then suddenly they just had to stop. without say in any of it.
fact is,
they themselves chose to stop.
chose to stick with .decision.
chose turn life around. (not easy by any means)
credit where credit is due.