it can do ...many reasons . its not just a negative emotion
ex. its about what one has, (or even does not have ) but would like to have, . their value of it, and desire to retain or obtain it could be anything, from stuff, to relationships, to skills , abilities, looks, career , values, etc etc etc the list is endless,
so, it can inspire , motivate one to acquire any thing, hence it could be something to improve self.
perhaps a skill , an attitude , a set of values , a happy relationship , or some material stuff, activity....could be anything ....when you have it you may be jealous of it in sense want to keep it that way.
someone , try to take from you something you value or love , your not going to like it.
how you react is another matter....involve other thoughts...emotions. individuals will act differently....depend on lots stuff ie ..personality / values / worldview ..etc.
theres nothing wrong with jealousy in sense it just a normal human emotion. and like all emotions . its how you use them that counts. use them for the best is the best,
(now whether, what one has or want is good for them is another matter...it may or may not.)
the next step across the line from jealousy .------------------------------ is envy.
tread carefully,
thats not just about having ...wanting to have...//maintaining /preserving/ holding onto....something you love or value .
thats about the added ....violence.....hating....despising.....anger towards getting what want , or taking from others what they have, or hating on them...wishing harm etc (anger eating away at ones heart )
a nasty n bad state of mind to be in , and feeling . i m h o.
(anyway thats another story)
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people are not necessarily jealous because they are insecure, lack self confidence , fear some loss etc. however..they can be that way of course,...hence would like have those things...security /confidence/ self respect ..etc.......in addition to other stuff, and preserve and maintain them .
ALL people regardless of that ....in the world can , and do experience jealousy. (including the aforementioned) imho
indeed... drinking i suppose is like that for most folk.= generally drink to moderation , but through into the early hours on occasion.. in your case your birthday kicked off the situation. of course been fed drink and thrown in a pool should not have happened.
i drink to my own pace to enjoy and never to anybody else,s drum.
and so decided to drink on overnight. its 4.20am now. i have no desire to stop. lol
i wonder why this happens on occasion. ?
Perhaps your brain is so anesthetized that you've gotten past the point where you can use your brain to make a decision.
Right now it's a habit to keep raising your arm to take another chug. I've done the same thing with potato chips, not using my brain to stop putting my hand in the bag.
It's an automatic reflex to keep picking up that bottle/glass.
By asking "why are you doing it" you answered your own question that you know you shouldn't
Maybe it's time now to not take another chug, put your jammies on and go to bed.
no...its not that i know i shouldnt...lol ........its that i know i should ...
im enjoying them immensely , why would i want to stop a good thing.
may my reflexes..reflex to my reflections .lol
what i meant by why does this happen on certain occasions is...................that at times one can get an extra taste for the beer and it just taste nicer than usual...and it just comes out of the blue ..like a strange phenomenon . ..you feel like could drink gallons of it.....lol.
but generally its not like tthat.
im not complaining about it tiz grand...all good.
i dont wear any jammies........does that mean i have to stay up all night . laugh:
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