RE: Dating Your Boss

Assortative mating, egocentricity, rights-obsession and self-absorption and the other Boomers habits of prosperity and decadence should now take a backseat to traditional, earthier and more down-to-earth values.

That's the good thing about us becoming poorer. I regard the greying liberalism of the middle class no longer having the stranglehold over society as a good thing, we'll be much happier with hot and feminine women around and without political correctness lowering the tone of the place and spreading lies everywhere. My generation of men having to work harder, be smarter and more responsible will be worth it when there are beautiful women to come home to. All the struggle will be worth it, so long as she is worthy of inspiring this struggle.

If I'm wrong then it's goodnight my children's children as the 1% will be only ones to survive in any great number.

RE: Dating Your Boss

The silver lining for the masses getting poorer and the nation sliding into the status of developing country is that women will start to behave like women in order to not die.

If our British and American sub-Marxian warpigs turn out to be more like Brazilian hotties then does it really matter that we won't have the money that our parents did? A few fewer cheap iPhones and a missed holiday to Tenerife are a small price to pay for a nation of women you actually want to be around. And it's a small price to pay for a nation of men who are not made creepy, desperate and weak because of such poor options of fallen women to choose from.

RE: Dating Your Boss

Breaking assortative mating could have immeasurable benefits for our entire society. Not only will the aspiration of marrying into money help the great masses stay sane, healthy and in-shape, but it will also help ameliorate class divisions.

If the sister of the woman the rich man loves is just a hairdresser then his heart will not be so hardened to the plight of those beneath him, and likewise, if your sister is married to the elite then this may help the average person understand the elite and ditch his or her paranoid, gimmedat or blinkered view of the world.

RE: Dating Your Boss

And it's not bad news for working class men. Not just a case of rich men stealing your best women as beauty is not a zero sum game. All these prole women who stay pretty and healthy to be attractive to elite men can be enjoyed by working men in the meantime, and also, this group of women will raise the average standard, other women with no intention to marry into money will notice women around them becoming healthier and more attractive and they will follow suit. Nobody loses.

RE: WHAT IF

That's not what you'd get now if you scrapped the welfare state.

Japan has a welfare state and they're a solid people. There's also more welfare state today than 50 years ago, we've just gone through the longest recession on record, and we've seen none of the scenes of the past. For the most part today's generations have taken hardship on the chin, 50 years ago they took post-war prosperity and still revolted.

So I don't believe the welfare state makes people scumbags, I believe that people who are scumbags made our welfare state. The scumbags are the reason why we can't have nice things anymore.

RE: WHAT IF

I own valuable stuff, stuff that I don't want looting. I'm all in favour of riot insurance I'd just like to see the many of the potential rioters thrown out of the country. Imo all these pet reclamation projects we've allowed in are an unnecessary addition to our family, and just like pets these are family members we can get rid of.

RE: Profession

Still, most people fit the generalisation that if they say "I'm an honest person" then they are probably not that honest a person. And clever people need to learn to expect and respect the stereotype and be as the average as the average(unless given a proper reason to be/think otherwise)to make life a lot easier.. Most people really are samey, average really is average, and the world really is a much brighter place when you're not too bright for it.

RE: Profession

On average, yes. But that depends on the level of power in someone's brain. Smart people, as in real smarts and not educated smarts, will know the bluffs and feints of the average person. Great liars won't claim to be honest because it makes him/her look like a liar. Socially savvy closet cases will probably express support for gay rights for similar reasons.

Powerful minds won't make the same mistakes as average minds although they make their own mistakes often from overestimating the other person's intelligence. The average person's bluff they see as the savvy person's double bluff.

RE: WHAT DO MOST WOMEN MEAN BY LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO CAN MAKE THEM LAUGH?

Although this is just them taking themselves too seriously. I notice many a Black man can't walk down a street without self-consciously strutting in a desperate attempt to look cool. I really have no idea why middle class Whites think/thought that Black is cool, I can only blame the media garbage box and the fact that people don't get out much.

RE: WHAT DO MOST WOMEN MEAN BY LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO CAN MAKE THEM LAUGH?

All the funniest people are a little bit screwed up and comedy is the saving grace of mental illness.

RE: WHAT DO MOST WOMEN MEAN BY LOOKING FOR A MAN WHO CAN MAKE THEM LAUGH?

You really are an imbecile.

RE: Fox news: discussion about NUKING A MUSLIM COUNTRY?

All is not lost. Sometimes I feel I'm the only one on CS making this argument, but movers and shakers who understand the world tend to agree - even the Baby Boomer movers and shakers hold their hands up more often than not. What is it about people who hang around on dating sites and not taking responsibility for yourself? There's a definite correlation as I've heard greater political maturity in Student Union bars.

RE: Fox news: discussion about NUKING A MUSLIM COUNTRY?

I studied electrical engineering at one of the finest universities in the country - I was one of the two White faces on the course and the only White face to graduate.

Never use tech by another country? Fat chance. The White race would need to have been doing proper jobs for the last half century in order to sustain our technological advantage. But this advantage, like so many others, has been fluffed away to pay for two or three decades of easy living.

RE: Fox news: discussion about NUKING A MUSLIM COUNTRY?

Tribalism!

"Republicans and Democrats have had very different views of the two operations. Today, only about half of Republicans (52%) say it is acceptable for the NSA to obtain court orders to track phone call records of millions of Americans to investigate terrorism. In January 2006, fully 75% of Republicans said it was acceptable for the NSA to investigate suspected terrorists by listening in on phone calls and reading emails without court approval.

Democrats now view the NSA's phone surveillance as acceptable by 64% to 34%. In January 2006, by a similar margin (61% to 36%), Democrats said it was unacceptable for the NSA to scrutinize phone calls and emails of suspected terrorists.
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RE: Fox news: discussion about NUKING A MUSLIM COUNTRY?

I'm talking about national security which in Britain is more of a focus for the Conservatives. Careless talk costs lives harks back to our history, the Conservatives brought that in during the second world war, and it was accepted by a generation that was undeniably brave. But these loudmouth and chattering generations of overgrown children that gave us Rambo inspire neither respect nor fear across the world.

Anyway, in America the importance national security jumps from Left to Right depending on which administration is in power. There's a tribal adolescence in American politics which no other Western country has to the same extent. In Britain and Europe the desire for 'order' is on the Right and it doesn't swap around every few years due to political vendettas.

RE: Profession

Polls so trivial there would be no motive to lie?

RE: Profession

This logic will be more accurate than the poll results. I see there are already thrice as many women working in finance as there are men according to that result. Hm. Self-reporting is dubious at the best of times and it's an outright enemy of the truth when you're asking insecure people with glass egos certain to lie.

RE: Profession

Wordier types who spend more time on a computer anyway, yes. The forum should be more white-collar than the site in general.

And I would also say that the blue-collars on the forum will lean towards the more professional end of blue-collar work - in comparison to the site, not the real world, as dating sites norms are not the same norms as the real world.

What was your suspicion?

RE: Profession

Rain is asking which profession you're in, not what level you're at. I don't think it's about money.


I would say CS should lean towards male dominated and female dominated professions where men and women do not meet through work. I notice many primary(elementary)school teachers are on dating sites. And the forums should be skewed towards the white collar.

RE: Profession

Unemployed isn't a profession.

RE: 36 questions that will facilitate anyone to fall in Love

The idea is that you'd incorporate one or three into a natural conversation to add a little depth or keep the momentum going. I don't think you're supposed to fire them all off at once like the quickfire round of a quiz show.

RE: 36 questions that will facilitate anyone to fall in Love

37. Will you marry me now that I'm a multi-millionaire with a brain tumour the size of the pineapple meaning I'll be dead within a month?

RE: 36 questions that will facilitate anyone to fall in Love

I've used some of those before and it took me months to realise the trick of listening to her answers with apparent enthusiasm. Not yawning, sighing and scraping the sleep out of your eye are key.

RE: Headshots

There's almost nothing she can do or say to come back from being fat. It's irredeemable. And we're much more open when we're angry anyway.

RE: crazier: man or woman?

One explanation could be the woman's natural and pronounced tendency to wallow. If you dwell on yourself for long enough you'll find that everybody is sick.

Another explanation is that social atomisation and isolation affects women more deeply because men have more of a lone-wolf mentality. Loneliness does not drive men crazy, depressed or neurotic like it does women.

RE: The black sheep of the family...

I'd need to blacker than a black man's cape to be the blackest sheep in my family of black sheep.

RE: Gold Diggers

Wallet on legs is the default in a man with nothing else to offer.

Middle eastern women don't have the luxury of choice that you do, they often have to choose a man for his money and security. Usually middle eastern women need to live off a provider-male(of some sort)whereas our women mostly live off the government(in some way)which is paid for mostly by men anyway.

RE: thus love deal with colour of the person?

It'll also depend where you are to a certain extent. in America being Black gets you subconsciously associated with all Black losers, murderers, rapists and vagrants there are in the US. Go to a White middle class area in Europe - cosmopolitan enclave or leafy suburb - and you'll probably find that being Black grants you an "exotic allure" which would help you get a date(but not find a wife).

RE: Are men from Mars and women from Venus?

Good title. However, great swathes of the book itself are a chump's training manual.

It's good for two types of people. 1) Girls so ridiculously girly and solipsist that they project onto others constantly 2) Men so far from being a "natural" that anything useful in that book comes as a surprise to him. It's a step up from the gender-bending dark days of boomers, feminists and the enabling half-man, but it's a dated and old book now.

RE: thus love deal with colour of the person?

Gendered Racial Exclusion by White Internet Daters:


Body type, political views, and religion are also related to the exclusion of blacks or Asians. Among white women, one of the most striking findings is that white women who describe themselves as slim, slender, athletic, fit or average are nearly seven times as likely to exclude black men as dates as women who describe themselves as thick, voluptuous, a few extra pounds, or large. For white men, body type has no effect on their likelihood of excluding blacks or Asians. While political views also have no effect on racial exclusion by white men, white women who describe themselves as liberal or very liberal are less likely to exclude black men as dates than women who are not political, middle of the road, or conservative. Surprisingly, liberal white women appear more likely to exclude Asian men as dates, although this finding only borders on significance. Finally, religion affects black exclusion, and Asian exclusion among white women. Specifically, we see that whites who identified as Jewish were dropped from the analysis of black exclusion because it was a perfect predictor; that is, all white men and women who identified as Jewish excluded blacks as possible dates; all white women who identified as Jewish also excluded Asian men as possible dates. Further, white men who do not state a religion or who state their religion as “other” are far more inclusive of black women as dates than those who describe themselves as not religious. Likewise, white women of “other” religions are more likely to include Asian males as dates.

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