I use to work at a sandwich shop, and even something small like a bag of chips or a small cup (excluding water cups) has to be charged if they want it. I watch all customers and if I see them attempting to take something I automatically confront them. I'm a nice person, so I won't just go and call the cops but deal with them myself. If someone comes in with no money and is really in dyer need of something, not just someone coming in with a 5 minute story I will do an exception and pay for it for them.
I find a shared contribution to be fair. To me I may like to pay everything, and might sometimes ask if you would like to pay part aswell. Of course if we were dating for a long time. But that's just my opinion.
I'm new to online dating, and have ran into a few skilled scammers. I've ran into some other sites (pay sites) and I haven't gotten anything real... I guess with the pay sites, if you don't pay, you get the fake profiles. Nice way for new online daters to find people.
I left for awhile, but figured I'd give it another shot.
RE: run? or fight? when in danger of life
I think it depends.I'm not much of a fighter, but usually will fight if I'm forced to.