Sounds a little negative, Pat. I hope that's not the case. Of course, I can't comment as I don't know the content, suffice to say that just because your feelings haven't been hurt doesn't mean its any less offensive behaviour?
I'm sorry, love..... I truly hate to burst your bubble, but....
An hour away? And he has a problem with it? Here in the UK distance is much more of a big deal that the distances you are used to over there in the US and yet he has a problem with being just one hour away?!
My fella travelled 252 miles to come and see me, took over 4 hours. And he was happy to do so.....
I agree with some of the comments that there is something else going on here. Not sure what, but I also concur with the view that his behaviour seems scary (bizarre, even).
His earlier behaviour and then his seubsequent behaviour smacks of having someone else who he thought was a better bet, and then it didn't pan out, so.......
Its not nice, I know, but you did ask for advice (honest, I take it you wanted?) and I suggest you re-think your stance on this without letting your feelings cloud your judgement?
You seem too nice a lady to warrant being taken advantage of.
Don't despair.... I have been here a very long time (since 10AD I think?), gave up, and yet I have found someone..... it WILL happen. Truly it will!!
And..... we'd love to hear all about it when it does?!
My shortest relationship was 2 months (just before last Christmas) and, no, I didn't think it would last. He was a strategist and I can't stand strategic people, so I'm glad it didn't last... there was no hope of that!
In fact, he really was quite an unpleasant person. Ya live and learn, eh?!
Very interesting, yes. I am not religious by any means but, I confess, I DO believe that some things/people/events are sent our way at specific times for a purpose. I have found that time and again throughout my life. The purpose may not be recognised at THAT time but it transpires the route we then take or how it effects events thereafter is a turning point in one's life.....
Believe me.... something happens and someone enters our life for a reason. The key is to take something or learn something from it?
Pegs?? I do believe its known as a "peg" over there but....
Whisky is measured in drams over here!
And... its "Glenfiddich" BTW....
As to your question, a couple won't hurt you and, yes, may help you sleep. Though if you find it becoming a regular habit in order to sleep.... you need to seek an alternative?!
RE: Say Something, Anything....but be NICE Not! lol
'Marnin', handsome..... only 3 days to go!!!