i challenge you to point out one person i have ever 'turned on'?
you on the other hand
many here still remember your old screenname- conveniently dumped now along with its hideous exploits- and many were actually here to witness your turnings
funny how a couple of people here *ahem* project all of their behavior choices onto others and actually try to convince people of this nonsense
i certainly never turned my back on you or laura id never be that stupid
and ive never turned a friend away who wanted to remain frineds
i am a lover not a fighter but when provoked i do eventually stand up for myself
i am not playing victim as you 2 love to accuse
i am standing in the light not doing dirty in the dark therefore i cannot be victimized
and yes i signed back in because people suggested i do so for mail it hasnt all been nice but i appreciate all of it
forgiveness is a choice meaning it is my responsibility
there is no one outside of myself that offends me in any way that can keep me from forgiving them
when i am ready to be free all i need do is forgive-
even in this little microcosm of society (CS) it is easy to see people who dont forgive, people whom are wholly consumed and motivated by resentments against others here- virtual strangers.
they are as puppets dancing on the invisible strings of their unforgiveness- indeed their choice to clutch their resentments.
that is their business
but in the end
forgiveness is a choice, not ever something unattainable.
i dont know what anyone else should do- heck half the time i am groping blindly and have no idea what i should do- i hope the best decisions for this couple and child. sometimes initially our choices look wrong to others and over time prove themselves right for us- even if only temporarily.
it is essential and yes sometimes it might even cover such a hurtful betrayal
i have people asking me advice constantly due to the nature of my work
i have worked hard to learn that even tho folks are hurting and desperate i can help best by knowing i do not know what their right path is and just being there for them in love
i have said to people 'i am not comfortable making suggestions about this issue but i care very much about you and will absolutely listen and support your decision'
my peace inside myself is directly related to how much time i am spending 'knowing what you should do'
i post combatively and pass out im passive aggressive but try to appear super sweet i havent posted a new picture in at least 3 yrs i hide my native tongue im just not as intelligent as i imply
RE: Vent - Anonymous message
here is another gem for you to reporti challenge you to point out one person i have ever 'turned on'?
you on the other hand
many here still remember your old screenname- conveniently dumped now along with its hideous exploits- and many were actually here to witness your turnings
funny how a couple of people here *ahem* project all of their behavior choices onto others and actually try to convince people of this nonsense
i certainly never turned my back on you
or laura
id never be that stupid
and ive never turned a friend away who wanted to remain frineds
i am a lover not a fighter but when provoked i do eventually stand up for myself
i am not playing victim as you 2 love to accuse
i am standing in the light
not doing dirty in the dark
therefore i cannot be victimized
and yes i signed back in because people suggested i do so for mail
it hasnt all been nice but i appreciate all of it
cheers and taRA CS