mindfful Forum Posts (18,996)

RE: DEPRESSION

youre a psychologist?
and your answer is dont be negative it doesnt help?
priceless! the nature of depression- chemical depression not situational depression, which yes most will face for a period in their lifetime-is that it hinders ones ability to 'not be negative'

unreal

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

no trish
what i know is that i do not know the intentions of others and regardless what their intentions am i not responsible for my own response?

we do not have some obligation to accuse or expose people and frankly its none of my business if they are devoted to WHATEVER or if they are devoted to winding people up

why do i care if they want to believe or wind up non believers

its not their fault people get wound up

how immature!

if the windee gets wound thats on them

it aint the fault of the winder now is it?

Teena Marie Dead

hahaha how cute craig came in just to say hi to lucy

its so nice when its nice here

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

there is no context for discrimination when we dont own the house where the party is taking place

who are we to say how many quotes of any type are in any thread on any topic?? seriously its rationalizing and justifying prejudice thats not in your jurisdiction to regulate

enjoy people

i am not letting this bring me down

im out

already getting the hate mail streaming in

just for being thye voice of reason

sorry my capacity to compartmentalize and justify my own arrogance is waning

and not a moment too soon

i seriously feel less peaceful when i am trying to regulate others' behavior

im not trying to do that here-just making some suggestions and posturing some what i hoped might be provocative thots

peace out y'all

oh i mean war out

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

but what about those who like to chat to each other in these threads?

if someone likes cheese why would it cause acrimony?
if it does wouldnt that be seen as intolerance?

if folks dont like to hear about it they should stay out of the threads and if they are really passionate about not hearing the issue here they should go to admin since they make the categories

no kidding i am surprised to see the justifications by realllly sensible people here on one subject

its just BS

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

medsummer

if someone was preaching on the street would you aggressively answer and oppose them if you were just walking by on your way to the shops? for an hour?

would you really spend your valuable time that way?

i mean as as been said

its a singles and mingle site- why spend valuable time shouting someone down?

why not walk on?

i mean if someone starts a thread why comment on how they respond to postings?

its preposterous.

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

its not

in my opinion
disrespectful to share ones views

and you have seen me say this same stuff to 'bible thumpers' when they attack posters of other types of beliefs

right and wrong dont change

its about principles not personalities

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

yes defence of free speech is always bizarre

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

what is wioth the accusations of a coordinated effort to push anything?? its a religion category

like minds meet here
regardless their interests

thats likely why the site includes many thread options- for folks to socialize on topics they have interest in

why not avoid them? just saying

anyone on this site that has an interest to share and discuss whethere it be travel, music religion, politics- whatever who's business is it? wouldnt people just gravitate toward their interests?

how do we justify trying to chase these people off but not the other interests that are here?

frankly we cant

no one is coordinating or pushing anything

they didnt solicit in mail
they dont go where others are and begin posting such

so seriously its the disparagers problem, not that of any Op of any topic

even says so in the forum rules

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

i dont see why not is that philosophy? why not?

i will never imply you are wrong for doing it



but you know that

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

bb im shocked appropriate?

i suppose there is this category for those that like to share in this manner on a singles site

ive never understood why non believers seem absiolutely compelled to come into 'bible' threads at all...seems folks would go into rooms wherein the party interests them rather than rooms where there is a movie playing they have no passion for

RE: WHAT IF GOD WAS TO GO ON STRIKE?

i havent seen the thread contents except for your post

i like you bunches but we are all allowed to say what we like here regardless of whether 'most' want to hear it

the luxury the 'most' have is to click away from posters they dont like

the thread is in a category that the site deems appropriate to retain as an option for the forum

no one elses behavior is an excuse for us to be exclusionary or unkind

is it?

the majority can go elsewhere

RE: Giving up smoking! Your Diary.

Teena Marie Dead

rick james is dead




im going to bed

this has gotten a bit weird and i am wishing i hadnt posted it

RE: Word to describe Parents who lost their Children

there is no sound that could be uttered that could indicate or describe this pain

Teena Marie Dead

yes he was a real but all the women i knew who overcame him went on to recover from other injuries as well

he was a reaaaallll


can ya tell i didnt like the guy?

Teena Marie Dead

just got off the phone with some friends there

no official word yet

her daughter found her - she is pretty peaceful about it at the moment. she was sober last i saw her a few years ago-
sometimes you get used up early tho from the 'lifestyle'

defo makes me a bit uncomfortable

Teena Marie Dead

she was funny and complicated and an amazing performer

one of a few that passed this year that were a big part of my life before i lost it all


she was cool people

Teena Marie Dead

I'm freaked

We partied together and played together and just totally ruled the 80s

soooo many people i knew that were part of major memories for me are dead

why am i alive?

RE: I made a Tiki Bar!

excellent excellent job witchay

merry christmas hon

RE: Seasons greeting to one and all.

hi life-y

i may not be back for a few days so let me say feliz navidad hermana

RE: Seasons greeting to one and all.

love you jaaaaaaaaaaaaan



you are a good friend and i really appreciate you.

RE: New to CS

welcome to CS

RE: nobody wants to play

dood are you saying you are planning rants?

might i just suggest thats not where you want to focus

what you focus on increases so maybe an attitude of gratitude might feel better and increase your enjoyment of life

just as it is


((im not saying its easy but i can guarantee a better return than you are currently receiving and so its worth the effort to learn a new way to be))

RE: an apology

should...hmmmm...

interesting attitude knowing what others should do

youve been really really insulting for the last good while.
he gave an apology for something he did in public so he cleaned it up in public





mind ya own bizness wall
being big doesnt make you all knowing as to what is appropriate for others ya know

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and irish you neednt leave the site you just got back fer chrissakes

RE: Goodbye Precious

as often as possible

you see boban i have to get them before they get me

i also really enjoy ostrich, duck and goose

RE: Goodbye Precious

i have a severe bird phobia but i deeply understand the pain of pet loss



condolences

RE: Who here watches Dexter?

cartman

ok well the pic you have up now kinda does look like him- on the inside spilling out-the vibe is there but i think the ok cupid look is hot

what can i say

i am a fan of your people- esp the men

RE: Who here watches Dexter?

i watched numbers faithfully when it started
and criminal minds too
i stopped watching when mandy patinkin left the show
(because i have been in love with him for almost 40 years)

i like scrubs and always watch anything written or directed by zach braff

those others i am unaware of but yeah- even familiar episodes can be a comfort somehow so thanks goodness for ipods

RE: 52

bravo