It is always good to stop people from polluting the globe. On the other hand,whether it is wise to over produce products, even the whole planet can't consumer, and using up energy,it also need take into consideration.
Now we come to the oldest argue: whether family life is better or a single life is better?
There must be some good parts about family life. And a guy with a family also has better sense of responsibility. And our society do benefit a lot from responsible people.
To woman, I can only say: stay away from playboys!
I think ladies should also realize whether the guy intend to know you and marry you,before you go to bed with him.If there is not the same intention, no sense waste your time with this kind of guy.
I do agree with the above lady. Money itself can't make you happy,not to mention it is not your own wealth. . Of course a very poor life I will not think it as happiness.
I think mutual respect, nice personality,have something you both like.A real love life between the guy and woman don't always happen with a rich guy. I don't have bias over rich guy,but I think better to find someone you both like each other,equal in many things, or the poor side will suffer a lot in this kind of relationship.
And this alcoholic guy who rode the motorcycle died.This is not the end. So his families and relatives found all the other 7 guys and asking for compensation.So finally the other 7 guys each one compensated the deceased guy's family each 50pounds. AS the dead guy did insist on drinking alcohol himself.
So if people are having dinner with alcoholic guys,do take care.Making sure, if they burn their own house, your house is not next to his.
This labour also has some friends,all guys,after their work,these guys just loved to gather together, as they are labours, so that they don't earn much. But they decided to share a meal together. So that everyone will split the bill. So one evening,8guys gathered together. As most of them need drove tractors back, some slightly wise ones said no more after each of them already consumed 250ml. But one guy who couldnot afford to buy a tractor, he need rode his motorcycle back. He was also alcoholic. He really liked alcohol so much, that evening, he would not give up drinking more even the other guys said: we need drove back, let's stop drinking more alcohol. He persuaded one of the other guy and drank with him another 250ml. Then they drove home, but this guy rode his motorcycle and banged his head on the foot of a bridge.
And immediately he was sent to the hospital, he was so poor that he could not pay the hospital bill, that his relative paid this hospital bill, but nothing could help. He died. And he left 2 kids,5,3 years old to his wife.
This is a real alcoholic guy I know. He is a labour,but he loves alcohol so much that he need have spirits all the 3 meals. Even in the breakfast, you don't have any dishes at all, he is thirsty for a drink, which sometimes can mean 250ml, and evening meal, he could get double or 3 times of that. And he need drives back home. So one evening, he had a meal in a shabby restaurant, as his wife would not like him to drink that much at home,this time he drank around 500ml alcohol.And together with his tractor, he drove into a 3 meters deep pit, dramatically, he only got some scratches on his forehead, and nose, which the next day people saw him sticked with some bandaids on those scratches. And the tractor, just fell into pieces.
The 10 year little girl one time I saw her, said she need save some money. I think it is a painful unstable life with an alcoholic mother.No money to pay school, no money to pay a room.
The woman can earn around 1200pounds per month,and when the guy are capable to earn money, he pays the school fee for the daughter and living expenses of the little girl. He refused to live with the woman since 5 years. And the woman does not know to save some money aside for the little girl and her own future. When the guy was out of job for a year, the life situation was a mess. The guy could not afford to pay the school fees, and could not afford to pay their rental of a 1bedroom apartment. So finally the woman together with her daughter moved out of the apartment. Good is the woman's friend offered a room for them to stay temperarily. And another year is coming, school fees cost around 12000pounds per year.No money for the apartment rental. But even stayed in the friend's apartment, the woman said she need take taxi to go to work and send her daughter to school instead of taking buses.Not to mention,how long the friend will take in the the mother and daughter.
I know am an alcoholic woman, who was pregnant,and she married the guy.After she gave birth to the girl,finally she broke up with the guy in the last 5 years. So she take care of the girl around 10 years old. She would drink on Saturday and Sunday, as other days she need work to earn some money. The reason why the guy left, when she was angry,she smashed his two ribs with a chair. and still a lot time, she is earger to get a drink. And the guy is not that promising,but seems to be better than the woman.
As a single mother,I agree with the lady above.If you don't expect the ex to give you anything. YOu will feel much better. Try to give yourself a quiet and pleasant mind, then if you find some good chance in work or other guy even, it is better.
If your face looks like bitter gourd, no one will be interested, and this will block better opportunities.
He didn't work well later on, so I returned some money. He could not get much payment. I bought him some goods to sell. But it is fine. I never said anything bad in front of our daughter. We both just could not get on. But now we do talk. But we haven't met each other for years
He did give her this much, if you think, until the child grow up, then every year is around 2000pounds.I did pay him back around 5000pounds in these years, so more or less, 1500pounds each year, including food, education, go to hospital.Even university. I might have better luck comparing with other ladies. But still a lot of work for me.
To Kristia49: ““ AS a single mother with so many kids, I understand how difficult the life will be. Just still try to find some entertainment for yourself.
I am in the same boat, but my mum helps me taking care of my daughter. Even so, last year,when my daughter was ill, I carried her to the children's hospital. I panted after only around 50 meters, then stop, and after a while carried her again, finally this 600 meters road, we paused several times. I carried my daughter into the hospital.
This is only one aspect of life. But now I feel more relaxxed. And She is 9 years old. I want to study more to find better chance for a job.
I have a daughter, her dad gave her 20000pounds at one go. So since she was 3,I began to earn a living. I try to manage the money her father gave her. NOw she is 9 years old, I try to earn a living, and my mum helps me taking care of my daughter. We all love this child very much. No extra support from her father since. But comparing to other father, maybe he is not bad.I sometimes talk to him. But that is all.
It is nice to read the opinion here. Sometimes the answer might hurt,but everyone should get real.We learn things in a painful way,but will keep on mind much longer time than get it in a quiet way
I think it is very unfair to pull someone into a separated guy or woman affairs. I mean the one should try to terminate his separated role, and be single.
It is only my idea. I will not rush into separated guy for sure.
I think as time passes by,people can feel love is difficult to find. Love from mother to your own kids, it is pure. But if you offer your love to a guy, it is difficult to be unconditional. Maybe it is difficult to find real love, so that love is precious. So we need treat ourselves well, and respct others,hopefully we can find someone to share the love in life.
Before I did have a bad experience with a separated British guy. Just unbelievably difficult. I will not touch this kind of guy anymore. I leave the chance for someone who have very tough strings.
you have to be extremely good to win. Your time and energy is just down the drain.
Yes,I learn something from your opinion of love. Because we human beings already have our own background. It will not happen a prince will love a beggar. Your love will be conditional anyway.looking,education, health,height,the way they dress,wealth. This is the reason why I quite like your idea,if the guy is not selfish to you, it is love.
Katherine, Chinese people is the second largest buyers of USA properties in the world. And Chinese people also bought some properties in London. There are poor chinese,but there are middle class chinese, and some rich chinese are very wealthy.
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RE: China is a threat to the Human race
It is always good to stop people from polluting the globe. On the other hand,whether it is wise to over produce products, even the whole planet can't consumer, and using up energy,it also need take into consideration.