We are all ok with being single, at 55, I am more comfortable with it than when I was 32(I was single for a bit then to). Many reasons why people are ok with it. Other dating sites do not have a social forum and this is the reason a lot are here. imo.
Oh I don't mind. First, I guess I would be considered a loner. Lived in the city I'm in only three years, don't know anybody. Second I don't wish to go to a Bar/Pub, I drink rarely these days, plus I had enough of it when I was young, so not very social. Third(and I only just figured this), I might have a slight fear of another relationship. That's all I can say I guess.
Anyone can stay upright on a Bike, when it's moving it wants to stay upright by itself(Newton)Riding and controlling it is a different skill set. Now I have wandered off the topic.
No rule book there. Thirteen years for me, with two couple of years relationships in between. I suck at dating, so much I don't want to do it. There are better experts here than I.
RE: Longest being single?
Some of the others tend to stray from the subject matter.