well it was great seeing Eyes and Gord. Photos will be posted later... Funny first thing Eyes said ... had something to do with not knowing I was as short as I was ....
Visit was awesome ... wish others could have come too.
This blonde decides one day that she is sick and tired of all these blonde jokes and how all blondes are perceived as stupid. So, she decides to show her husband that blondes really are smart.
While her husband is off at work, she decides that she is going to paint a couple of rooms in the house. The next day, right after her husband leaves for work, she gets down to the task at hand.
Her husband arrives home at 5:30 and smells the distinctive smell of paint. He walks into the living room and finds his wife lying on the floor in a pool of sweat. He notices that she is wearing a heavy parka and a leather jacket at the same time. He goes over and asks her if she if OK. She replies yes. He asks what she is doing and she replies that she wanted to prove to him that not all blonde women are dumb, and she wanted to do it by painting the house.
He then asks her why she has a parka over her leather jacket. She replies that she was reading the directions on the paint can and it said....
Will you be alright to meet up the last week of Sept 28th to Oct 2nd?
I will not be able to go next week. Had 4 requests for interviews and they will not wait if I go to Whitehorse for the week of Sept 21 to Sept 26th. they know I am delaying my trip for the interviews and I told them if I give up the trip for this week, I won't be available next week, I'll be taking my trip no matter what. (even if I get the job) I was getting excited and looking forward to the trip ... so I will have another week to be happy and excited about the trip. :-)
I'm bringing my hairy mutt with us. He loves to travel in the truck. Tends to think he owns it.
Brian told me I'd have to come before Oct snow comes so I can get a look at all the colors. I am so looking forward to meeting you and Gord. I told Gord if we can't met up, I'll still give him a harassing phone call. Me thinks he might enjoy getting bossed around over the phone.
We will have to take a photo of us all together and post it for the gang to see.
Prison gates won't open up for me On these hands and knees I'm crawlin' Oh, I reach for you Well I'm terrified of these four walls These iron bars can't hold my soul in All I need is you Come please I'm callin' all I scream for you Hurry I'm fallin', I'm fallin'
Show me what it's like To be the last one standing And teach me wrong from right And I'll show you what I can be And say it for me Say it to me And I'll leave this life behind me Say it if it's worth saving me
Heaven's gates won't open up for me With these broken wings I'm fallin' And all I see is you These city walls ain't got no love for me I'm on the ledge of the eighteenth story And all I scream for you Come please I'm callin' And all I need from you Hurry I'm fallin', I'm fallin'
Hurry I'm fallin'
All I need is you Come please I'm callin' And all I scream for you Hurry I'm fallin', I'm fallin', I'm fallin'
Show me what it’s like To be the last one standing And teach me wrong from right And I’ll show you what I can be
And say it for me Say it to me And I’ll leave this life behind me Say it if it’s worth savin' me Hurry I’m falling
And say it for me Say it to me And I’ll leave this life behind me Say it if it’s worth savin' me
Everyone has a different preference for what kind of photos are a turn off or turn on. Some people feel pet pictures should not be included and some, like me, feel that showing your pet, will tell us more about you.
JMO ... pick the photos you feel will show the real you. I snook a peak at your photos. There is nothing wrong with the photos you have on your profile.
... There are a few parents on here with one or more children with special needs. In their cases, they are having a harder time because of the toll, and time it takes to look after them.
JMO, sometimes there seems to be more single parents with kids, than there are singles with no kids.
Everyone here has given great advise. Most important one,... be yourself Hunter. It will happen when it's supposed to.
FYI.... there are lots of ads just on this site alone that lets you know about other dating sites ... and when you log off here, you get a list of sites ....
It's not easy, and there is no perfect answer either.
You have taken the first step, allowing yourself to find someone.
When talking to a women, be yourself, and don't put on airs, or those use stupid pick lines or cliches. BE YOURSELF. First just say hello... it's that simple. Make eye contact.
From there it's up to you and the lady. I'm no expert, but "hello" and eye contact means a lot to me.
hmm but aren't we like a fine wine, get better with age???
Your comments to cody were on the mark.
JMO ... photos a person ( female or male? has on their profile can also say a lot. Maybe the boy's/girl's night out (holding a beer, or all the drinks on the table) might give a certain image about maturity and why some older persons might not be interested. Not all older people are interested in playing the same games younger people are into. (just a thought)
Age might matter to some. Depends on if the older woman has children/adults the age of the younger person interested in them. (only speaking for some women, not all) You might be an adult, have a job etc, but they might still see you as very young and don't want to raise another child.
Do you want kids? Some older women have been there done that and don't want to do that again. (or be some one's sugar mama)
What do you have in common? Life experiences? what kind of history do you share ... example, T.V. shows, movies, music, up bringing ...
I find it easier to talk to someone that will remember some events, like the first man on the moon, the 60's, etc. Just feels we would have more in common. My fiancee is 2.5 yrs younger than I am, but not so young that we do not have many things in common.
How mature does the younger person act? Depends on lots of things.
It is not a matter of why older women not liking younger men, it depends on many factors. They also have to be careful they are not a person of interest just because they have already accumulated financial stability, a home, a career, and their children might be grown (not dependent any more.)
It might also depend on how you present yourself. Do you only focus on older women?
Sometimes when females have a baby, they give all to the child, and feel they are always giving. Sometimes, the effort of their partners, just is not the type of attention they want.
I am a female, and will admit, I have trouble figuring out why we females do what we do. We can be difficult.
Geo gave great advise ... my question ... is your partner a stay at home mom?
Sometimes us females when we have a kid, change. It's not just the hormonal gave birth blues. Sometimes females forget to work on the relationship and make the child their main priority.
Getting help with a counselor usually helps, but only if both parties are willing to go and work on it.
Wish you, your partner, and child all the best. There is no easy answers in situations like this.
Attention Eyes and Gordy...
well it was great seeing Eyes and Gord. Photos will be posted later... Funny first thing Eyes said ... had something to do with not knowing I was as short as I was ....Visit was awesome ... wish others could have come too.